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Maybe a better analogy would be "recreational drug" use. Some people are ok with it, especially if it was done in the past and not done currently; to others there is a stigma associated with having used drugs, even in the past.
An even mo' better analogy might be "infidelity in a relationship". Some people can justify their own infidelity in past relationships (he was mean to me, we weren't "really" going out, we were just "friends with benefits", etc.), and the current partner may be willing to give them the benefit of the doubt and be ok with it (as long as it remains in the past). Other people would never date someone with any amount of infidelity in their past.
Some people will only date athletes, while others are drawn to musicians, or "bad boys", or academics, or religious/spiritual, or yes, even those who have not sexually shared themselves with many. All lifestyle choices.
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thats interesting .. how many people would refuse to date someone who had a history with cheating?
and do any of you have "musts" that you think others dont require like you when it comes to finding a mate? (only athletes, certain academic records, "bad boys", "nice guys", religious preference etc.)