How many married men indulge their bi side with guys

[titan1968]

Fuck yeah Fuckyeah!I could not have said it any better.

I've found since embarking on my own man-on-man sex journey, that there are many, many married men who are looking for sex with another man. I am shocked at how many to be honest. Not shocked because I don't think it's natural - more shocked at the number of married men who have to suppress their natural need for man-on-man love. It's sad because making love to another man can be one of the most fulfilling things a guy can do. Especially if the dude is a good buddy - the feelings of love and lust for each other can be overwhelming. Imagine the joking around you normally do with your buddies that turns into a jerk-off session, mutual masturbation, blow job, or more - without judgment!! The release is incredible.

My personal belief is that married men need guy time - and that, as a society, if men were free to love each other without judgment, we would be much better off. Doesn't have to be sexual, but (as an example) giving another man head can be one of the best ways to show how much you care for your buddy while easing the constant urge to get off. Certainly much better than suppression which leads to aggression and all kinds of bad things.

 

[ABurnabyDude]

Bi married guy here who was able to work things out with proper communication. 100% that we need guy time, the same as my wife needs girl time.

We set some rules which are honestly for the best:

• Nothing in our house to avoid the embarrassment of being caught.
• Safe sex only for all activities UNLESS the other person is willing to get tested (Canada FTW for free testing).
• No drugs, cannabis ok which neither of us is interested anyways.
• Whoever her or I are hooking up with must consent in writing.
• Open communication, we can demand of each other access to devices and chat histories if needed.
• Nothing illegal. (Everyone must be of adult age, no illegal sex work etc)
• Brutal honesty.

I am not shocked at the amount of married men on the same boat. I am more shocked that society still ignores it. Let people do who they want to do and stop caring if its gay, straight, bi, etc. It’s just fucking horniness being released.

Now if only I could find a fit versatile dude in my area... lol

 

[Scott8361]

When I was married I had a strong bi curiosity that finally became too much. I wanted to experience a big cock and found a gay couple that wanted to give a "straight" guy a taste of M2M sex, and one of them had a big, thick cock.

After that initial taste I continued exploring and acting on my bi craving for playing with big cocks while married, keeping it all secret.

I am now divorced and in a relationship with a great woman, and I still have to occasionally indulge my desire for cock.

I have a married guy who loves to have me blow him from time to time through a glory hole I set up. His wife won't suck his dick to climax and he loves to be serviced and explode in a warm mouth. Its a win win... I get a nice big cock to worship and he gets to release his load in a mouth that graciously and passionately desires it!

 

[fuckyeah]

When I was married I had a strong bi curiosity that finally became too much. I wanted to experience a big cock and found a gay couple that wanted to give a "straight" guy a taste of M2M sex, and one of them had a big, thick cock.

After that initial taste I continued exploring and acting on my bi craving for playing with big cocks while married, keeping it all secret.

I am now divorced and in a relationship with a great woman, and I still have to occasionally indulge my desire for cock.

I have a married guy who loves to have me blow him from time to time through a glory hole I set up. His wife won't suck his dick to climax and he loves to be serviced and explode in a warm mouth. Its a win win... I get a nice big cock to worship and he gets to release his load in a mouth that graciously and passionately desires it!

That's great to hear man! I can honestly say my marriage is stronger now that I'm taking time to enjoy being with another man or men. Over the years, I've had many occasions where I've had a strong attraction to dudes but never acted on it. In fact, I chose to deny it as the anxiety the feelings generated were too much. I'm a much happier person now that I have accepted I need an outlet for connecting sexually and emotionally with another man.

 

[NautiRogue]

My wife and I are both bi. When we play, it's usually an MMF threesome but bi couples-play is also a lot of fun.

Pre-covid, I'd go to a mens' bathhouse a couple times a month and jack off in the sauna with other guys. Sometimes I'd get a hand job or a blow job. As long as I was being safe about it, my wife didn't mind. That's about the only thing I miss about working at the office!

 

[Stephenmass]

Wow I myself is in the same boat. I new I was into guys prior to me getting married 7 years ago (I'm 34). But technology as far as social media wasn't available the way it is today. But tthrough all my curious endeavors I have left evidence on the computer for my wife to see. Well needless to say I got caught in the act but she still forgave me. She said she always knew that I was possibly bisexual. The decline in our sex life really made me that more ccurious about being with a guy. So our marriage is not a open marriage but now the cat is out the bag we just agreed to be sexless. But we coexist very well without any animosity.

There must not have been a lot of sex before she found out? Ask her, depending how open she is, what she would think about opening your marriage, as long as both agree to the third and both of you are present.

 

[Stephenmass]

I guess I'm in the same boat as well -- married and off and on curious about sucking cock. It's why I put myself down for 1% gay, even though I have yet to act on it. On cam yes but not in person. One of these days maybe... ;-)

Another Boston guy here (just north of Boston really). I remember my curious days.

 

[Stephenmass]

So Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I was married to a woman and now I am married to a man. Sex with my husband is like the most difficult thing when compared to my ex wife. Like his hole is soooo tight and it frustrates me. I haven't been with a woman since we been together but damn. Might be the wrong thread but any ideas what I need to do to make sex easier besides lube.

Getting him to relax more, foreplay, and potentially (I know you said besides lube) a plunger type lube (liquid lube in a gel type cap) that gets pushed in easily with a plunger type thing that puts the lube where you probably need it. How long have you been with him? If I may ask, is it a versatile relationship?

 

[Stephenmass]

So Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I was married to a woman and now I am married to a man. Sex with my husband is like the most difficult thing when compared to my ex wife. Like his hole is soooo tight and it frustrates me. I haven't been with a woman since we been together but damn. Might be the wrong thread but any ideas what I need to do to make sex easier besides lube.

I just looked at your pics. My compliments on your discipline at the gym. I didn't realize how large and girthy you are. Hope things are getting better...my other advice still goes, but that said, imagine your size entering you. You're a big guy below the belt and have to go easy with your dick until he gets well used to it. Be more patient. Not sure what kind of lube you are using, but oil based vs water based would work better for a guy your size.

 

[HorseHung40's]

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it. She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

 

[mrbigdoc]

I am married but just have the urge to enjoy another mans cock from time to time. Not into guys as much as hugging and kissing. I just want to enjoy their cock and they enjoy mine and see you the next time. I am very oral with my wife and very oral with the guys I meet. My wife is aware that I do have a huge cock fetish and I do feel a bit guilty after I have a hook up. But to be honest that goes away pretty quick when I see or meet the next guy to enjoy!!

 

[fuckyeah]

I am married but just have the urge to enjoy another mans cock from time to time. Not into guys as much as hugging and kissing. I just want to enjoy their cock and they enjoy mine and see you the next time. I am very oral with my wife and very oral with the guys I meet. My wife is aware that I do have a huge cock fetish and I do feel a bit guilty after I have a hook up. But to be honest that goes away pretty quick when I see or meet the next guy to enjoy!!

Good for you man!! Enjoy the cock and the time with another dude.

 

[fuckyeah]

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it. She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

I’m in a similar situation. And at this point in my life, I don’t have the energy or patience for the drama that can (not trying to be sexist or stereotypical) accompany sex with women. With dudes, he and I both know what it is we want. We know it doesn’t have to be romantic and we don’t have to spend hours fore playing. And yet it still ends up being a powerful experience both physically and emotionally.

 

[pdxrimmer]

I've sucked a lot of married cocks.

 

[MilfBanger78]

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it. She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

Best way to do it. I have a few female friends that actually do the same. Hubbies have no sex drive but they dont wanna break up the fam, so they have sex on the side. Only thing is women tend to get emotionally attached easier.

Best thing about male-male side play is its so much more casual

 

[Scott8361]

I was married and developed an oulet of bi sex to experiment with desires for cock. My marriage was bad and sex was nonexistent, but didn't want to end it due to my kid.

I found when looking for male partners there were many married guys looking for the same.

I now have a married guy I service on a regular basis, but not regular enough. Covid has messed up opportunities to hook up. He just loves his cock blown. His wife won't do it, so I get the privilege of his big cock filling my mouth with fresh cum.

 

[bi2]

I’m in a similar situation. And at this point in my life, I don’t have the energy or patience for the drama that can (not trying to be sexist or stereotypical) accompany sex with women. With dudes, he and I both know what it is we want. We know it doesn’t have to be romantic and we don’t have to spend hours fore playing. And yet it still ends up being a powerful experience both physically and emotionally.

I would say this is the one major and massive difference of sex with men compared to with women. Convenience.

With men, its generally easy, quick and no hassles. Foreplay is already played out in organising and excitement of meetting up and once both men cum, they can go and resume their lives without the need to be romantic or grateful or worry about the other guy till they want to have sex again.

 

[TN727]

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it. She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

Very similar situation.
As has been mentioned, its what both guys want, cocks hard, both cum life moves on.

 

[bi2]

Very similar situation.
As has been mentioned, its what both guys want, cocks hard, both cum life moves on.

Good, Simple. Quick and efficient. Everyone wins here.

 

[barbunz]

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it.

When my wife went through the change, she lost her sex drive. Although she did speak to her doctor and a specialist about this, she has taken no additional steps to do anything to revive it. She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

She told me to take matters into my own hands.

I met several attractive men in similar situations. Before long, we were meeting regularly for sex.

I don't care to upset my family. The sex is done discreetly. My wife does not ask; I don't tell.

Mine also lost all interest in sex many years ago. Wish she would tell me that