How many married men indulge their bi side with guys

[daftman]

but you do this with permission?

 

[merc41]

but you do this with permission?

No

 

[steveh9]

I've sucked many married guys and they suck me too, and fuck me at times too

 

[Theo0152]

Sex with wife or woman is totally different than with men. It is a different need for a true bi guy. One is not a substitute for the other. I do cheat and meet guys.

 

[flatiron]

My missus (soon to be wife) knows I'm bi. She would crucify me if I had sex with another woman, but I have relative freedom to play around with dudes. I'm not sure she likes it, but she accepts it. Having said that, it's been a bit of a dry spell lately, so...

 

[CURIOUS_8]

My missus (soon to be wife) knows I'm bi. She would crucify me if I had sex with another woman, but I have relative freedom to play around with dudes. I'm not sure she likes it, but she accepts it. Having said that, it's been a bit of a dry spell lately, so...

WOW!! Man that's amazing

 

[ds35mm]

Im a married guy who has been playing with guys since 20+ years now. Of course, my wife doesn't know of it. I would be dead if she found out!!! For those guys here whose wives "accept" it - you are very lucky!

 

[bi2]

Sex with wife or woman is totally different than with men. It is a different need for a true bi guy. One is not a substitute for the other. I do cheat and meet guys.

I couldnt agree anymore with this, so true.

With women, I am always dominant and enjoy taking control.

With men, its totally the opposite, I am submissive and bottom, which is why I prefer an older Alpha male Top.

 

[flatiron]

WOW!! Man that's amazing

except for the bit about it being a dry spell. it's one thing to have the OK from my GF, but it's quite another thing to hunt down the dick.

 

[Obeliskdude]

My girl is accepting of me playing with other guys too....I count myself lucky.

 

[hotbidan]

My fiancé knows I swing both ways, she'd kill me if I fooled around with another woman, but occasionally encourages me to have some fun with a guy. She says don't bring anything home and be safe! Which of course that goes without saying.

 

[Obeliskdude]

My fiancé knows I swing both ways, she'd kill me if I fooled around with another woman, but occasionally encourages me to have some fun with a guy. She says don't bring anything home and be safe! Which of course that goes without saying.

Same - fooling with a guy is ok. With a girl? Absolutely not!

 

[Luvcutdick]

My fiancé knows I swing both ways, she'd kill me if I fooled around with another woman, but occasionally encourages me to have some fun with a guy. She says don't bring anything home and be safe! Which of course that goes without saying.

My wife, who has passed, had the basically the same advice. Be discreet, do not bring anything home and be safe. I only hooked up with married men.

 

[brandon38]

Why does someone ALWAYS have to play the 'cheating' card??

Is jacking off cheating? No
Is grabbing a beer or a sandwich with a buddy? No

Getting your nuts off once in awhile with a buddy is just a another form of masturbation or male bonding... I'd say for most of us that are on the straighter end of the spectrum there is no emotional or physical attachment at all. We're just friends that are dealing with the same problem only doing it together.

We're not going to date, marry, have kids, etc.

We're horny and not getting enough or the kind of sex we like (usually oral) and have had to take matters into our own hands most of the time and might as well help each other out.

Agree so well put .

 

[Marco86]

I'm a married bi guy. Have been bi ever since I can remember I just happened to fall in love with a woman before a guy I suppose. Sex with men is much easier and less complicated and although I do sometimes feel guilty I try to keep my m2m meets purely physical and keep emotions outside.

Similar here.

 

[Marco86]

Why does someone ALWAYS have to play the 'cheating' card??

Is jacking off cheating? No
Is grabbing a beer or a sandwich with a buddy? No

Getting your nuts off once in awhile with a buddy is just a another form of masturbation or male bonding... I'd say for most of us that are on the straighter end of the spectrum there is no emotional or physical attachment at all. We're just friends that are dealing with the same problem only doing it together.

We're not going to date, marry, have kids, etc.

We're horny and not getting enough or the kind of sex we like (usually oral) and have had to take matters into our own hands most of the time and might as well help each other out.

sounds about right,

 

[Marco86]

I think there is a internal justification for (some) married guys who fool around with guys that it isn't cheating as there is no emotion or attraction in the same way involved and it's just sex (for the record, although not married I am an example of this)

I see it closer to watching porn or jerking off than I do having an affair.

agreed

 

[Assman1]

My missus (soon to be wife) knows I'm bi. She would crucify me if I had sex with another woman, but I have relative freedom to play around with dudes. I'm not sure she likes it, but she accepts it. Having said that, it's been a bit of a dry spell lately, so...

Same here as far as the freedom to play with other dudes.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I've met married men who play on the side with their wives' approval. They seem to be very happy and their marriages seem solid. Relationship standards are changing.

 

[Iwanthead]

So if the gf, wife doesn't want to succeed your cock, or take your cocktail or cum in her mouth/throat.
Is that parallel to the honey I am not a plumber, mechanic.