Is that bisexuality, or is it a cock fetish? I'm hearing more and more people say exactly what you said. They are really into the dick and not what comes with it.
How many men are actually bisexual?
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There are lots of men who would look at you as if you had snakes coming out of your head but who might still do stuff with guys when they know there is very little chance of getting found out.
And there are a lot of men who indulge their fantasies to the point of self-delusion. Yet, it obviates the claim of being "straight" when such a fantasy becomes reality.
I know a gay man who slept with a woman once when he was in his early 20s. Would you call him bisexual?
Yes. If we accept the identities of homosexuals and bisexuals why do so many posters here persist in denying the identity of heterosexuals by implying all straight men are just one hot guy away from a homosexual act? It's plain nonsense no matter how many times someone posts their claim of turning a straight guy. I'm quite sure that claims of turning homosexual men heterosexual through some spiritual epiphany would be loudly shouted down on these pages, but claims of turning heterosexual men homosexual is enthusiastically applauded.
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I haven’t read through the whole thread. But imo I think it’s natural for most guys to be interested in the same sex at some point. Looking at history (romans and Greeks) it was very normal to have sex with men - almost a right of passage into adulthood. Some guys are just 100% straight though. But I reckon there’s a lot out there that are just too ashamed to act on their desires.
If it is a question, then having such a cock fetish can be part of a bisexual man's make-up but not part of a straight man's make-up -- otherwise, he is not straight, no matter the claim to the contrary. Straight men are not "into the dick" or "what comes with it" in a sexual manner. If it a point, then it lacks clarity and too obtuse to adequately get the meaning.
This is a forum with a bunch of porn addicted queer men
Don't expect then to actually have any type of critical thinking,they will only stop thinking that untill they flirt with the wrong straight guy thinking that they can "turn him" and ending up with a black eye
It hasn't happened yet because I'm picky & because every potential guy that I've met either on this site or on Craigslist (back when they had personal ads) turned out to be a flake.
If it's better than I imagine, then I guess I'll just have to keep sucking cock.
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Im not attracted to men but I love dick…..looking at them, playing with them and sucking them….and being a bottom too…..wife enjoys it
Yes what you say is said very often. You are not attracted to men but have a cock fetish. Does this mean you're bisexual? Probably not.
It certainly doesn't mean he's straight. If he's not bisexual then either there's a new definition of "bisexual" or a new definition of "straight" or new words need to be invented if it's neither.
Do you think that guys like him might check the "straight" box when given a survey?
Honk honk, buddy.
Guys like that just might. It still doesn't make him straight. People identify as all manner of things but it doesn't make them what they wish. Some in the homosexual world seem to deny the existence of a heterosexual world. I think such a denial is dysfunctional that leads to unhappiness.
Excellent.
Now do you think that *might* have an impact on data collected from self-reporting?
When I came of age in the mid 90s I didn't ever hear of anyone who was bi. I was one of those who just figured bi was an excuse guys used before they just turned gay complete. I did hear of a couple of girls who experimented but years later, they were married to men and had kids.
Personally I don't think it's gay or even bi for a guy to experiment with another male. Lots of gay men had sex with women before but it didn't change their orientation and I feel the same way about guys who may do something with a buddy or out of curiousity. Heck, I wasn't into women but saw enough of them that are pretty over the years when I was younger that had there been interest I'd have given it a shot. But at my age I'm gay.
Sexuality does fall on a spectrum for sure. Years back I had some hook ups with a guy who claimed to be bi. He had been married to a woman, divorced, then eventually married another woman. They are still going strong ten years later with two kids and I certainly wouldn't ask if he still thinks of himself as bi but have wondered when I see him on instagram.
Maybe I just don't get it and that's fine too.
Personally I don't think it's gay or even bi for a guy to experiment with another male. Lots of gay men had sex with women before but it didn't change their orientation and I feel the same way about guys who may do something with a buddy or out of curiousity. Heck, I wasn't into women but saw enough of them that are pretty over the years when I was younger that had there been interest I'd have given it a shot. But at my age I'm gay.
Sexuality does fall on a spectrum for sure. Years back I had some hook ups with a guy who claimed to be bi. He had been married to a woman, divorced, then eventually married another woman. They are still going strong ten years later with two kids and I certainly wouldn't ask if he still thinks of himself as bi but have wondered when I see him on instagram.
Maybe I just don't get it and that's fine too.
I presume your thesis is that some, most or all men who report to be straight are really homosexual? I have no idea how or why people report themselves in such surveys and neither do you. Casual observation outside this LPSG bubble tells us that most men have never had a homosexual encounter, do not want a homosexual encounter, and will never have a homosexual encounter. Our language has defined that sexual preference as "straight." If others want to change that definition such that "straight" no longer means what it has traditionally meant, then such a change does not obviate the fact that heterosexual males who will never desire a homosexual encounter walk among us and they represent the vast majority of men. If one wishes to so contaminate the term "straight" then another term must be sought to describe the thing we all know is true, no matter our denial.
