I think thats why guys can enjoy and indulge in MM sex without any drama's or stress.
The data is easy to come by -- some of it has been presented here -- but many do not want to regard the data because it undermines their narratives or fantasies. Once again, if one wants to apply the term "straight" to men who will engage in homosexual sex, then another term should be sought for that which we formerly called "straight." Just understand that employing an expansive meaning of straight men does not expand the population of men who will engage in homosexual sex -- no matter how much certain men wish it.
Bi curious guy who after experiment realize its not for him.
It’s more than who you have sex with that determines orientation. It’s always best to ask no questions when someone says their orientation as we really don’t know.
Straight. simple. As far as I'm concerned a straight man receiving head from a guy (even regularly) isn't that gay imho. A mouth is a mouth. The str8 guy in this instance doesn't even have to look at the guy If I doesn't want to
Under that circumstance, I wouldn't call such a man "straight" no matter how he identifies. However, if people insist on changing the traditional meaning of "straight" then a new word needs to be used to describe the majority of men who have not, do not, and never will desire other men sexually. Those men deserve an identity also. By the same token, if we all decided spontaneously to identify as birds, then I suppose we would need to come up with a new word to describe those winged creatures with all the typical ornithological characteristics of that which we used to call "birds."
Who cares those are just labels
Loved your post.
It's difficult to know for certain. He could be heterosexual or bisexual. It depends on whether or not he has an attraction to men, which only the man in question would know.
Labels matter because they are words that convey how we identify ourselves. Whereas words often change meaning over time, one's identity may not. Changing the traditional meaning of "straight" to include men who are attracted to other men sexually, whether or not they act on that attraction, ignores the identity of those men who simply are not attracted to other men. A "guy can id" as straight but that does not make him straight any more than I am a bird. It only makes a mockery of the word's traditional meaning, deluding ourselves about the great majority of men who are straight, and will always be straight, in its traditional sense. I would rather face reality with the clarity of labels and their meaning.
I hear you but it doesn't matter at the end of the day.
"Somewhat gay" also works to describe the same but you don't hear it used because it doesn't feed into the fantastic delusion that virtually all men are just one nice butt away from playing on the same team.
I would defer it to perhaps percentages? It's rare to find a true 50-50 guy like yourself. Most of us (from what I see here anyway) tend to be the majority straight. To be honest my bi side is mainly thru porn and online interactions. I've have had some failed meetups, but still hold hope.
Which makes my somewhat derisive original point: According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 4.4% of Americans identify as bisexual and 88.3% identify as straight. According to Americans who identify as bisexual, 100% of Americans who identify as straight are liars.
I think the mostly straight applies to a lot of bi guys in here from what I have seen.I would defer it to perhaps percentages? It's rare to find a true 50-50 guy like yourself. Most of us (from what I see here anyway) tend to be the majority straight. To be honest my bi side is mainly thru porn and online interactions. I've have had some failed meetups, but still hold hope.
That's only because you assume many more "straight" guys secretly yearn for homosexual contact. I think that's a fantasy but I understand the need for so many to cling to it.
A so called straight guy doesn’t have to yearn for homosexual contact to possibly be bi. He may find it much more arousing to watch straight porn where the men have large penises. That doesn’t mean he’s craving a cock in his mouth. Just that something about well hung men turn him on more. I considered myself straight for most of my life. I was never physically or romantically attracted to men but yet my wife and I liked to watch porn with multiple men with big dicks. But when I got an opportunity to play with a real cock, I loved it and realized that I was bi. I still don’t get romantically or physically attracted to men but I define myself as bi. There are plenty of guys here that would still consider themselves straight.
