How many men do you feel are secretly bisexual?

[daftman]

I believe a good number of men are bisexual since a lot of men enjoy watching other men have sex on camera and are aroused by it. Men buying sports magazines with images of men sexualized.

Watching a body building competition is much different than a man on camera butt naked, fully aroused and moaning. A lot of gay men will watch straight porn if the man has a nice body and stroke. Adding a woman definitely doesn't take focus off the man.

I wonder if the older males have spent 30+ years wondering about having some kind kind of intimate contact with another man and during their older years realise that social stigma is not as important as when they were young. Maybe some older males just think that they should do what makes them happy.

good thread... As a 60+ man -- to me there is nothing hotter than a smooth man OR woman, period. I'll take 'em both. Am I bi? for sure!

 

[Anton565]

I wonder if the older males have spent 30+ years wondering about having some kind kind of intimate contact with another man and during their older years realise that social stigma is not as important as when they were young. Maybe some older males just think that they should do what makes them happy.

When many men are starting out in their professional lives they have to conform to the standards of their peer group or of the group they want to join. What other people think of them has consequences in terms of acceptance and/or access to groups and just networking in general. Fast forward 20-30 years to when the guy is more established and made a name for himself.......what other people think of him has fewer potential consequences.

 

[NekkedMan]

When you consider studies showing the popularity of hard-core porn is with men having sex with women (verses all lesbian) one would think a lot more. Why? because straight men are watching OTHER MEN aroused to completion as they have sex with women. It can also be a form of a sick power trip: some studies show that there is an increase of aggressive sex and violence towards women depicted in pornography over the decades.

 

[StrenghtenMe]

I always guessed that bisexual men (2-4 on Kinsey scale) are probably 20% but that's just my opinion.
Our closest relatives- bonobo are basically all bisexual and 75% of their sexual contact is not reproduction driven. Male bottlenose Dolphins are basically gay and only engage with females to reproduce.
Also the religion aspect- abrahamic faiths that are most popular push the view that any attraction to same sex is very bad and only heterosexuality is good. But what if the Bible or Qaran pushed the view that heterosexuality is very bad and bisexuality is great?
Would that cause bisexuality to be dominant sexuality? Maybe.. maybe we would be like Bonobos- basically all men would have sex with each others to create social bonding, pleasure etc...

 

[MNpervert]

20% that identify as straight sounds like a good percentage that are actually closeted.

 

[Tcdbbq]

Honestly (and I’m including anything as minor as wanting to kiss, touch a guys dick, get sucked or groped) I think more 30-40% of men are. I don’t think ppl understand how much the thought of someone finding out keeps many men so far from it but I think that percent would definitely try if they knew no one on earth could find out. EDIT: honestly I think most men fear that they’d never be looked at as “men” and dateable by women which keeps them from trying stuff out

 

[Biryder]

Honestly (and I’m including anything as minor as wanting to kiss, touch a guys dick, get sucked or groped) I think more 30-40% of men are. I don’t think ppl understand how much the thought of someone finding out keeps many men so far from it but I think that percent would definitely try if they knew no one on earth could find out. EDIT: honestly I think most men fear that they’d never be looked at as “men” and dateable by women which keeps them from trying stuff out

I agree. The numbers are much higher than one would imagine. There is a very large number of men that would love to experience M2M if they knew absolutely no one would find out.

So many enjoy watching gay porn or just watching other men jacking off or whatever else. I know when I would watch porn with my buddies it was the cocks and cum shots that I enjoyed. But of course I never said so.

 

[1373263]

So many enjoy watching gay porn or just watching other men jacking off or whatever else. I know when I would watch porn with my buddies it was the cocks and cum shots that I enjoyed. But of course I never said so.

I reckon that many guys enjoy that sort of thing in porn without realising the depth of their interest. A gay mate told me about pre-internet days, where he would trade vhs tapes within a group of like-minded guys and also buy them through the "loot" paper, which was a local advertising paper. At the time he was quite happy watching straight porn as that was what was available and he got off on it, but couldn't get into lesbian stuff. Apparently he went to a guy's house to see what he had to swap, and when the guy asked him what he was into he happened to mention he didn't get off on lesbian porn, the guy paused but didn't say anything. They watched a couple of meh MF tapes and then the guy put on a MM tape, telling him he might like it more. He was certainly right and mate eventually came away with several MM tapes, and when he went back to swap them for another lot the guy seemed to know exactly where his interests lay. My mate told me that it took him a little while to realise it was the cocks that did it for him and he never looked back from there.