How many men, do you think, believe they are "small" ?

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Hello all.

Over my many years here at lpsg.com I can't count how many other men I have been in contact with, either posting in threads, or chatting with in the chat room, who weren't aware of what the average size of a adult male's dick is.
Almost all seem to believe the average size is higher, sometimes quite a lot higher, than it actually is.
I will admit to being one of those men myself until I learned what the average size is. It is 5.2" - 5.3" / 13,2 - 13,4 cm.

With this in mind, there must be millions of men out there believing they are smaller than they actually are and who, instead of being "small", probably are very average.

For the vast majority of men, who do not have sex with other men or have had such experimental experiences, usually only see other men's' dicks in the soft state and as we know (at least those of us who have been with lpsg.com for a while), we're divided into "growers" and "showers".
Taking this into consideration, it makes me believe there must be loads of men, who themselves are so called "growers", who think that all other men do as much growing from soft to hard as they do, and therefore assume they are smaller than they are. On that same note, there are probably men out there, who themselves are "showers", meaning they hang relatively large in the soft state, but who perhaps don't do that much growing from soft to hard, who believe they are bigger than most men while in fact that might only be true when comparing soft size.

As we all know, none of us had a choice regarding what size our dicks ended up at but it seems to me to be a real shame if millions of men go around believing they are "small" if they aren't, especially knowing how much men in general are self conscious of their penis sizes.

Any thoughts ?
I’ve fucked maybe 500-600 guys. About 50 were 6 inches or smaller. In my experience - and based upon biases that maybe more confident guys are out looking for hook ups and that I prefer Caucasian guys - the average guy is around 7 inches.
 

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Hello all.

Over my many years here at lpsg.com I can't count how many other men I have been in contact with, either posting in threads, or chatting with in the chat room, who weren't aware of what the average size of a adult male's dick is.
Almost all seem to believe the average size is higher, sometimes quite a lot higher, than it actually is.
I will admit to being one of those men myself until I learned what the average size is. It is 5.2" - 5.3" / 13,2 - 13,4 cm.

With this in mind, there must be millions of men out there believing they are smaller than they actually are and who, instead of being "small", probably are very average.

For the vast majority of men, who do not have sex with other men or have had such experimental experiences, usually only see other men's' dicks in the soft state and as we know (at least those of us who have been with lpsg.com for a while), we're divided into "growers" and "showers".
Taking this into consideration, it makes me believe there must be loads of men, who themselves are so called "growers", who think that all other men do as much growing from soft to hard as they do, and therefore assume they are smaller than they are. On that same note, there are probably men out there, who themselves are "showers", meaning they hang relatively large in the soft state, but who perhaps don't do that much growing from soft to hard, who believe they are bigger than most men while in fact that might only be true when comparing soft size.

As we all know, none of us had a choice regarding what size our dicks ended up at but it seems to me to be a real shame if millions of men go around believing they are "small" if they aren't, especially knowing how much men in general are self conscious of their penis sizes.

Any thoughts ?
Yes. When I see a man's cock hanging down like eight inches long I know that me and most men are undersized. Have always wanted a fatter and longer cock. Looks are important to me.
 

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I'm going to say at least 50% of all men will think they are small since we don't go comparing dicks out in the open wild. Porn and the rare size queens is more than enough to bring forth any anxiety despite what many will tell us otherwise.

I personally felt small for a big portion of my younger years for just being asian and falling into the stereotype trap. It wasn't until the rumors got passed around and women started throwing themselves at me did I realize the truth, and even then, it was a hard pill to swallow.
 

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I'm going to say at least 50% of all men will think they are small since we don't go comparing dicks out in the open wild. Porn and the rare size queens is more than enough to bring forth any anxiety despite what many will tell us otherwise.

I personally felt small for a big portion of my younger years for just being asian and falling into the stereotype trap. It wasn't until the rumors got passed around and women started throwing themselves at me did I realize the truth, and even then, it was a hard pill to swallow.
Seems to be more evidence of what women really prefer. So how big are you?
 

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I'm going to say at least 50% of all men will think they are small since we don't go comparing dicks out in the open wild. Porn and the rare size queens is more than enough to bring forth any anxiety despite what many will tell us otherwise.

I personally felt small for a big portion of my younger years for just being asian and falling into the stereotype trap. It wasn't until the rumors got passed around and women started throwing themselves at me did I realize the truth, and even then, it was a hard pill to swallow.
Could you give some insight into how Asian American men feel about the “Asian stereotype”, and how it impacts their egos?

I will say that as a “locker room” glance analysis, most Asian men as smaller soft than others. (I also tend to agree that the typical black dude is bigger soft that others as well.) but even if those glances don’t reflect in hard size, it’s my impression that the “Asians are small” stereotype is just as pervasive as the “blacks are hung” stereotype…. With more scientific justification.

an ex girlfriend once commented about a former lover that he was smaller endowed. And as an aside she added “but he was Asian, so”… sort of offhandedly saying that he was “in line with Asian men”. She wasn’t saying he was a bad lover, either. But she had no problem making the casual association.

I also have a friend on this site who is decidedly below average (4.7 x 4), and has a hard time accepting that his endowment is smaller than most other men. (Sort of ego/self image can statistics.) He loves out west where there is a high Asian American population. He has sometimes commented that knowing that statistically most Asian men are bigger than him is a bruise to his ego. A typical comment would be: “I mean, most black guys are bigger than me, but hey, that’s expected, right. But I’m not suppose to be smaller than most Asian guys.”

anyway, that’s my own experience on it. I’m not saying that any of those takes or observations are correct. But they are examples of how ive experienced “the asian stereotype”. I was wondering if you could off your take on it—whether the stereotype is true or not…. And either way, how it impacts Asian American men’s egos.
 

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This is because, as a gay man, I can tell you with certainty the 5.2" number is completely made up and is quoted over and over to make men feel better about being "big" when they're really average which is about 6-6.5 inches. I've been with over a hundred guys and probably about 3 were 5.2" or smaller. 95% have been 6 or bigger. I've 100% of the time been the smallest, but I'm only 4 or 4.5.
Is it because you were only looking for big guys? Is it because you were in situations that tends to attract big guys?
 
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And it kills me when they tell people, it’s not about the size its about how to use it. No offense to anyone but how can they use it if it cant fit in?
There's a guy on here who does videos that says it's not about size but how you use it but he also attracts guys by using his size as his method to get attention.

Guys, if size doesn't matter then stop bragging how big you are.
 

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I recently discovered the joy of nude beaches. They are the great equalizer. In the old days there were gang showers and guys managed to get dispense with their shyness and insecurity with those gone in the US insecurity and anxiety has skyrocketed.
Did guys shame each other back then? Social media pics saying their dick will take you to the hospital? Life coaches who say their Big Lingam will help you....
 

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I'm going to say at least 50% of all men will think they are small since we don't go comparing dicks out in the open wild. Porn and the rare size queens is more than enough to bring forth any anxiety despite what many will tell us otherwise.

I personally felt small for a big portion of my younger years for just being asian and falling into the stereotype trap. It wasn't until the rumors got passed around and women started throwing themselves at me did I realize the truth, and even then, it was a hard pill to swallow.
99% I think.
 
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Did guys shame each other back then? Social media pics saying their dick will take you to the hospital? Life coaches who say their Big Lingam will help you....
I have never seen it happen. It was a place with a purpose to shower/bath/relax. That's not to say it never did. It goes that with age and maturity that kind of behavior doesn't happen.
 
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So here's the thing, I am cut (aka mutilated) and small. I know the averages and what they say and what not. But, my preferences are bigger than average and Intact (aka Uncut). This doesn't mean that I don't find my small (5"), hairy mutilated penis sexy. Because, I do. And this doesn't mean that I don't find MOST Penises sexy. Because, I do too! BUUUUUT, in my eyes and mind, Hung & Intact = Real Man! Everything else is just about making ourselves feel better. But take ego out of it! Truth is truth and stats are stats. Taste and opinions and experiences are unique to everyone!
 
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