How many men have you loved?

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  1. Drifterwood

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    Very personal question, but it crossed my mind as I was sorting through some old stuff the other day.

    Qualify your response however you wish.
     
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    Three. And one boy when I was one.
     
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    There are different types of love. Considering all types, including familial, the total is probably about twelve.

    I would add you to the list, DW, but I have an aversion to cheeky birds. :tongue:
     
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    3. The first guy broke up with me because he was afraid of his families reaction to me. The second guy we just grew apart now with Tyrone he is the love of my life.
     
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    I've loved more men than you :tongue:.

    One? hesus I just loved mommy when I was 1.
     
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    Zero.

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    Romantic love....I'd say three, but out of those three one was based on a lie - I loved someone who didn't exist; the third refused to love me and refused to accept my love and ultimately didn't exist either. And while the first love was with someone who was a bad person, he was real.

    So I've been in love once.
     
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    Also going with romantic love . . . 4.
     
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    None. Education, unknown questions to be answered about self. Knowing and understanding. I thank a 50 year old guy 10 years ago.

    I came 3 times, but to understand a wee bit more about the Un-understandable........priceless. I smile.
     
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    D, I was taking the question seriously. I've been overwhelmingly in love with three men in my life as an adult, and one "boy", the kid I lost my virginity to at 14 and then got together with again at 17.

    As far as mommy is concerned, I love her too in my own fashion. She's the worst mother ever (poor thing, just had no talent for it) but the most amazing woman ever. In many ways, when I grow up I want to be just like her, but with a dick. :wink:
     
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    I don't understand. :confused:





    It is a personal question, Drifter. Were you sorting through the many love letters you've accumulated?
     
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    what?
     
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    *ponder*

    Romantic Love - one, the boy. eta: the boy is 32 flavors of love. from friend to loving how he eats pasta *is frippin adorable* so he might add to each of the loves below.. maybe even father figure.. not for meself.. but one day he's going to be an amazing Dad :shysmile:

    Shmooperific Love - 5 dudes. be-fries, soul twins, woobies, and brothers from other mothers.

    Father Figures - 3 men. shaped the good parts of me. wore down some of the less desirable aspects.

    Random Loveage of Undetermined Nature - 2
     
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    For me, just two: MickeyLee and Drifterwood. :p
     
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    :biggrin1:

    I know, I was just joshing with you.

    If she asks for a threesome, I am blaming you.
     
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    I have LOVED 4 men.. but had sex with a lot more than that.
     
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    Loveage is a good word. :wink:
     
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    you are so gay for me :cool::wink:

    *does not expect threesome RSVP from Mr. Drifterwood*
     
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    loveage is an awesome word.
    allows for feelings of ultra-shmoopocity.
    while leaving open possibilities for frisky monkey love :biggrin:
     
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