How many men like sph or bph?

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Fair enough, if it causes pain or discomfort to a woman then sure I won't feel proud. But that's not really what bph is though.
well like i said ive never heard of bph so i dont know what it entails, i assumed it would be things that would make a guy feel bad i.e youre too big
 

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I don't know if it really constitues "humiliation," but I can certainly be revved up by being challenged. Once, I wanted to try a different position with my wife, and at first, she told me, "I don't like it. I can't really feel you."

I responded like, "Oh, really?!?" and then proceeded to just hammer the crap out of her as deep and as hard as I could. I don't remember if I actually verbalized or not my thoughts of, "You're feeling that shit now, aren't you?!?" but we were both quite exhausted and satisfied when it was over.

More often, it's not that uncommon for her to make a playful comment upon initial insertion, as we're having to work a bit to get it in, along the lines of, "You're too big for me. My pussy needs a little dick!"

Then once we get going and she's clearly enjoying things, I'll throw it back at her with something like, "So, you still wish I had a little dick now?" to which her answer is invariably an emphatic, "no."
 
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This'd be an example of BPH (for all the unimaginative guys in here). Moreso from the teacher in the scene than the fellow students.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5631b881d622e

The clip to me looks like borderline cock worship, disguised as humiliation.

Social norms being what they are don't buy into the BPH thing, SPH is nothing new going back to school days.

Guys stick their chest out when someone calls them a "donkey dick", while the norm is to try to leave the country if someone calls you "needle dick".
 

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SPH is also a form of submission. Many men involved in cuckold relationships get off on their wife dominating/controlling them sexually and taking other more well-endowed lovers and humiliating them because of their penis size, not being able to satisfy them the same way, or their lack of manliness etc. etc.
If you don't get how someone could enjoy being submissive or controlled etc. then you would not understand it.
You explained it beautifully.
 
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Agreed with Hatt. If you have sex as part of serious relationships and/or if you care about the women you're having sex with, hearing that you're big enough that it causes pain or discomfort doesn't make you feel proud.

No. Not at all. Whenever it's happened with me, I tend to not be able to stop worrying that I'm going to hurt her.

It can, however, get better, once the two involved learn each others' bodies better. The problem resolves itself, then. But if my partner indicates any concern about my girth (or length, for that matter,) I go to lengths to make sure they believe it's okay to let me know if something's uncomfortable or hurts, and that I really do need them to do so, if so.


(Not commenting on the cuckoldry comment. Not my thing, but different strokes for different folks.)
 

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Contrary to popular belief they exist. Plus they measure for me or I measure them. I don't appreciate your inference that i just casually meet men for sex. I'm not sure whom you're used to speaking with but I'm not going to fuel your ego of the 7-8 myth. This site is dedicated to large penises. If you have a chip on your shoulder. I suggest you write it in your journal but get your panties out of a bunch because I have a preference and it's fulfilled. It's in your best interest not to contact me with nonsense again. I have an extreme intolerance to it.