I don't know if it really constitues "humiliation," but I can certainly be revved up by being challenged. Once, I wanted to try a different position with my wife, and at first, she told me, "I don't like it. I can't really feel you."
I responded like, "Oh, really?!?" and then proceeded to just hammer the crap out of her as deep and as hard as I could. I don't remember if I actually verbalized or not my thoughts of, "You're feeling that shit now, aren't you?!?" but we were both quite exhausted and satisfied when it was over.
More often, it's not that uncommon for her to make a playful comment upon initial insertion, as we're having to work a bit to get it in, along the lines of, "You're too big for me. My pussy needs a little dick!"
Then once we get going and she's clearly enjoying things, I'll throw it back at her with something like, "So, you still wish I had a little dick now?" to which her answer is invariably an emphatic, "no."