How many of you guys try for sex 1st date?

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  1. fak_et

    fak_et New Member

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    I have a buddy who often goes for sex on first date and has fairly good results it seems.

    Just wondering how many of you regularly go for sex after first dates and how well does it work? It seems like a good idea lately and I think I can pull it off very well.
     
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    I never have, I prefer to know someone fairly well before I have sex with them, I don't say I never would but it's unlikely that on a first date I'd trust someone enough.
     
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    i dont try for sex... i just have sex...

    whats a date? :confused:
     
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    I've had sex on or before the first date many, many times. In 2003 (before my girlfriend and I got together), I had sex with 8 different women; 4 the day we met, 2 on the first date and 2 on the second date. Of the second-daters, one gave me oral sex on the first date and the other... well, it just wasn't convenient for us to get together on the first date.

    But... I also declined several opportunities. Women can tell when you are on the prowl. Usually, their response isn't favorable.

    So, if you are planning on doing it because it seems like fun, don't be surprised if you have less fun than you want.
     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    I did for years. I was like a Vampire looking for flesh. It only made me feel empty inside. Void of feelings towards others. So after that there was never sex on the first date. I also made it clear to the woman that i wanted to take the time to get to know them. I wasnt looking for sex. I was looking for love and wanted to fill that empty feeling inside.
     
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    *cough* and then they laughed and called you gay...

    just kidding.. sorry.. couldnt help it..

    :rolleyes:
     
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    I don't see a problem with it. If it feels right, do it.
     
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    Not that I try. It just happens alot.
     
  10. Mr. Snakey

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    No they never called me gay. I had enough of the one night stands. In fact they found it refreshing. It put them at ease. I wanted to get to know them first. It all work out in the end. I have the woman of my dreams.:smile:
     
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    no sex on the first date--no second date--no exceptions!
     
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    different kind of people... you know whts going to happen on the first date
     
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    Most of my first encounters with people are hook-ups, but not always. Some morph into fuckbuds, but that stays pretty much exclusively sexual.

    If by dating one means dinner, movie, meeting for drinks, etc, then for me that's a follow-up with a hook-up I found intriguing on an intellectual or emotional level.

    It might sound reversed, but that's the way I've done it for over thirty years. It's worked well for me, over all.
     
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    i'd say it completely depends on the girl and where you met her. I've fucked on the first date a few times, but that was only after girls that I took out to the bar after dinner. Booze and sex on the first date seem to go hand in hand. I'm not saying you should run out and get her liquered up...but the right kinda gal will go for sex on the first date!
     
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    I have had sex on the first date many times. But I prefer to get to know the person a bit first. For me, I think it leads to more sexual success with women. They usually want to feel comfortable and have a level of trust before they'll give it. With men, I find they are likely to want sex much sooner.
     
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    If you just want to bone and you don't care about dating her, go ahead.

    If you want a serious relationship, I don't recommend it.
     
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