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erostonic: Hey, Jack!

My dude let it slip out that when he was 17, he used to get a porn video and 3 or 4 of his "straight" friends would jerk off to it. That is very strange to me considering most straight black men are homophobic (in my experience, that is).

I'm not gonna lie; I was kinda upset when he told me that :mad: (and that's an understandment). Sure, I've have one homo experience in my 20's which told me I could never be a lesbian. But I have never had the urge to call over my girlfriends to masturbate to a porn video.
 
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blak9: Erostonic,

Most of us are not homophobic. A phobia is a fear of something. I am not scared of homosexuals. I think the word homophobic is really a misnomer.
 
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erostonic: Hey, Blak9!

So what is the word for hatred and disgust of homosexuals?  This is what I was talking about when I said "homophobic" for lack of a better word.

(edit) You guys, before anybody hops off in my ass, I personally don't hate gays and lesbians. But I do know a lot of straight Black men who do.
 
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blak9: Honestly, I don't think there is a correct word for this. Many people often say homophobic for lack of a beter word. Actually, I might be in the minority on this...

I'll just send you an instant message.
 
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ifwinterends: actually. the dictionary definition of homophobia mentions contempt. which is far different from fear, and leans more towards hate (if you ask me). being a homosexual black (not fully, but part) male, i've come in contact with MANY homophobic heterosexual black males.

besides, what is hatred but a mask of some underlying fear anyway?
 

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A lot of str8 black men think gay black men are trying to be white. They are partially right; the gay/str8 dichotomy is largely of northern European origin, and gender roles are largely defined by culture. Of course, they then go into the Western gender roles.
 
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meathose10: I'll let a guy throat me off sometimes. Some of those cocksuckers are talented! Women can never deepthroat me. Some men are so greedy on it they've gagged it down to the hilt! As a teenager I had lots of mutual jack-off sessions . Other kids always wanted to see it. We had fun , but now I don't enjoy touching another man , unless he's bigger than me , maybe.Mostly I want all the attention. I'd get along real good with "Awestruck" there........
 
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Irish9: first up just wanna say...great site - seems to be used by some cool ppl too.

from a str8 mans point of view, i have no interest whatsoever in having any sexual contact with another guy.
sure, Ill check out other guys equipment in the shower etc...but thats as far as it goes. Just my opinion, and prob the same for the vast majority of str8 guys I reckon??
 
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markw: I was str8 until about 4 years ago, but always liked looking @ gym, admiring a well hung/built guy, etc - tho no contact. Then I got into CP/BDSM and discovered the fun Bi guys have. Maybe it's because we know how the equipment works, but guys are by far the best suckers! Same goes for j/o rings...

Being adventruous, things didn't stop there... but that's for another thread. ;)

Life's too short to only walk on one side of the street...
 
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junk792: I'm basically straight, but I have a fascination with cocks, especially big ones (surprise!). So I wouldn't mind sucking/being sucked by another guy, especially a hung guy. But I woudn't go for anal, neither with a guy or a girl.
 
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meathose10: Man's mouth/Woman's mouth : They're both warm ,wet ,living holes...Why discriminate ? But they are different. I like the feathery touch of a woman's lips and gentle tongue. They almost approach cocksucking dutifully. Makes you want to be polite about it. You wouldn't whack her in the nose with your pissbat, for example.....On the other hand ,you can pretty much donkey-slap a man until he's red in the face. With a man it's like sports : rough , challenging , good for a laugh. Women get a chance to turn the tables and suckle when they nurse on your warm hose. So why all the labeling debate? Fun is fun , man.
 
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giozam76: I like getting it from both men and women, but there are significant differences. I have to admit that I like the attention that a guy gives your equipment. Most of the women I've been with have had a hard time opening their mouths wide enough to get my cock in in the first place, let alone getting even half of it in their mouths.

Guys also pay attention to your balls better, too, at least from my experience. I once asked a girl i was dating to suck on my nuts, and she look ed at me puzzled and said "Why would you want me to do that?" Need less to say that relationship did not go anywhere but downhill.
 

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Irish9: first up just wanna say...great site - seems to be used by some cool ppl too.

from a str8 mans point of view, i have no interest whatsoever in having any sexual contact with another guy.
sure, Ill check out other guys equipment in the shower etc...but thats as far as it goes. Just my opinion, and prob the same for the vast majority of str8 guys I reckon??
H your eyes closed, could you tell the difference between a woman's or man's mouth? It's like this many guys jo, use their hands.Does it mean they have an attraction for their hands? I don't thinks so. No man in his right mind thinks twice about it. And for straight men whobare not attracted to gay men any more than their hands, their mouth is just a vehicle to get a nut and their throat is a vehicle for their cum just like a rag, paper towel, washrag, shower, fleashlihlight, rubber pussy or melon is.
There is no attractiin.Guess what men do when they shoot a load in the shower or their commode; it gets flushed or washed away.So be it.
I never mert an honest to goodness straight man who was interested in my cock, ass, even how I looked.
Their main concerns were the following:
Discretion
No strings
Cum and run is understood
They didn't cum 4 friendship; they came to use my throat as a cum dump
And of course, no sores, clean, groomed, disease free and I always asure them of it
Some want to get behind a gh at a xxx video arcade store

The plus is they don't inherit Kobe Bryant's or Antonio Brown's problems; a cocksucker will not call their girlfroend or wife, will not fall in love, doesn't want romance just cock and cum), seldom talks, always submissive, almost always swallows, lets a man fuck his throat no complaints and likes it and ebven thanks him.
The idea that their is attraction between the two is wrong.
There are bisexual men who are turned on by men but straight men are never turned on by men any more than they are to their own hands or any other way they use to crank out a load!