throb919: Tiger,
Let me add my voice to the Gay Men's Chorus saying "welcome!" I hope you'll find that there are "enough gay men on the board" for you to relate to. I'd also ask you to give the het-guys here a chance. While you've said "I don't really find much of a bond with straight guys at all, in my opinion" I think the guys around here just may be able to change that opinion--if you give 'em a chance. You also said "...most times I'd rather talk with a gay guy about things like being hung and such, just because its easier for a guy of the same sexual orientation to understand, in my opinion. I'm a bit close minded about it, I guess, but that's my take." It's a take we all get to for different reasons based on our different experiences; in "the real world" (with exceptions, of course) gay men and straight men don't have lots of truly open disussions about the things you mention. Discussing "being hung and such" is pretty charged and cross-orientational biases and prejudices get in the way. On both sides. But I'll ask that you not let your own preconceived ideas color (or even prevent) your relationships with the straight guys here at LPSG.
As Phallostratus suggests (among several good suggestions), us vs. them just doesn't apply here. Really. You're queerer than a 3-dollar bill? Great. We've got 5s and 10s and some of those brightly-colored new 20s; one of our members even makes his mortgage payment in 1s!
"There seem to be WAY too many straight guys around here. Kinda depressing in a way." Nah--it's pretty cool, actually. What's also pretty cool (to me) is that it's the gay guys all rallying 'round the straight guys in this thread. And I absolutely believe that if a straight guy had posted "There are WAY too many gay guys around here," it'd be our straight and bi brothers taking him to task. (Likewise, when misogyny reared its ugly head recently, it was the guys who spoke up--with the exception of one girly-thrown can of tuna; when a racist comment is made, it's usually a white guy who'll say "not here!"; when an American holiday rolls around, the Europeans/Canadians/Australians are the first well-wishers.)
You also say "I'm a massive flirt, and have a tendency to 'convert' people to the church of TigerWolf." They'll probably let you flirt a bit, Tig. But they're no more likely to be converted to your religion than you are to theirs. (If you want them to accept your homosexuality, you better be prepared to accept their heterosexuality. Give as good as you get, Tiger.)
Acknowledging you're "a bit close-minded" in this area is a great first step to opening it up. In the several months I've been here, I've participated in conversations I never could've imagined; I've been stirred by female-written erotica, gotten caught-up in a baseball rivalry, and learned way more about the cervix than I ever wanted to know. But you know what? I'm a better man for it. Not a better gay man, not a better straight man, not a better bi man--a better man.
Give it a chance, TigerWolf. You might just like it here.
Tony