How many partners before you aren't considered a NOVICE?

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I... uh... well, JUST found this thread, saw that it's addressed to me, and I never knew about it or answered it. :redface::redface::redface:

I don't have a set number, but whatever it is, I sure haven't reached it, especially considering my long dry spell. Be that as it may, I'm in the same boat as JBT, and Rubi. The first time I ever gave head my friend told me, "If I didn't know you, and KNOW this was your first time, I'd swear you were a pro. That was really amazing." Um, 'thanks?" :eek:
 

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I'm observant, so I learned quickly how to have sex. I've not enough partners though; I can only please one with exceptional skill.
 

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its probably different for some people. some people pick up right away, others are never good at it. at the same time, being experienced doesn't guarantee a good sex because each person is different and wants different things. you may be excellent at pleasing one person and horrible with another
 

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Wow... novice_btm... still alive n' kickin'.
Isn't it about time for you to torture me with what I can't have, and make a new spurting vid for me? :tongue:


Well, minus the kickin' part once I drag him into DC's dungeon. :saevilw:
You know I'm more than willing for you. You wouldn't need any restraints. :wink:
 

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Well, I'm at 26 - have been an expert (oops, THE expert) for years - and I'm still learning every day.

LOL! I totally agree, TP. Learning something new everyday is one of my mottos to live by. I reckon after about 2 partners, you've moved well beyond the Novice stage. But don't know what to say regarding how many to be considered an Expert. There are sooooo many things that make up an expert lover; like, expert blowjobs, expert fucker, expert at getting fucked, expert handjobs, expert kisser, expert at seduction, expert at foreplay, expert at dressing the part, expert at chat...list goes on and on. I'm not an expert at all of these, but definitely at most.

And I honestly have no idea what my count is up to now...I know I've got TinyPrincess beat by a long shot. Hell, I got to 26 partners in my first real year out. But I'm a guy and we're big ol' sluts anyway. Or at least I am.
 

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And I honestly have no idea what my count is up to now...I know I've got TinyPrincess beat by a long shot. Hell, I got to 26 partners in my first real year out. But I'm a guy and we're big ol' sluts anyway. Or at least I am.

You're a big slut!!!

Just a pity you're gay - perhaps we could teach eachother something.:tongue:
 

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I think you always learn about sex each time you do it.

My first time was two years ago with a girl with some experience. I told her the next day that it was my first time...she didn't believe me. And I think she never believed me...
 

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How many partners before you aren't considered a NOVICE?

It's not how many partners you've had, it's what you've learned.
Excellent point! Though I haven't had many lovers; I have been fortunate to have been with men who were experimental, patient, and fun lovers.


Only one if it's me, but you knew that already...
Darn, you stole my line. :tongue: :flirt:
 

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It's not how many partners you've had, it's what you've learned.

Agreed, it's not the number of partners. However, I feel it's when you become comfortable enough with the operation of your own equipment and the particular partner you're with. Someone ends it with you today and tonight you hit something new, you're busted back down to novice again regardless of how much "ojt" you had in the other relationship. It's like getting a new cell phone, sure anyone can make a call and hangup, but can they really use the phone ? What's the learning curve ?
 

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Some of the most experienced have, in my experience, also been the most inept. On the other hand, I have met guys who knew exactly what to do, and how to do it, right off the bat. Go figure. Personally I'm still learning. Dang gotta go put in some more studying ;)
But yeah each person is different and you're still a novice with them the first four or five times (then its time to try something different).