How many people different people you had sex with?

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  1. Imported

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    Slutbunny: Sup peeps

    Ok, so most people won't be honest. But i'm just curious to see how many memebers here have had different sex partners.

    P.S. No way i'm voting first :)
     
  2. MisterMark

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    This is definitely a poll created by a girl, or at least a poll geared toward heterosexuals. Gay and bi guys can easily have dozens of partners throughout their lives - or at least that's been my experience. ;)

    (Okay, call me a slut - I don't care! :lol: I enjoyed (almost) every minute of it. :p )
     
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    lol tru, i'm gay and have had well over 30 partners, since i was 19, and i'm 21 now. :wub:
     
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    Yep - and there are definitely pros and cons to having a lot of partners as well as having very few partners.
     
  5. Imported

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    Slutbunny: Haha, i'm not a chick.

    I'm just asking this because I'm fairly young and have sped thru many guys like a freight train.
    From the answers, seems like I'm living a normal sex life :)
    Thanks.
     
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    lol...I THOUGHT you were a guy, actually! Well, good. I'm glad that we've been able to help you feel "normal" again. That's part of what the LPSG is all about. ;)
     
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    LoveGirl: It's okay that you are "sluts" but I'd like you to know, you'll never be as happy as me. I got to give my virginity to the person I'll be with the rest of my life, or longer. Virginity is something really special and my sweetums found it to be a very nice gift, something you can only give once in your life. Unfortunately it can also be stolen, in very violent ways, as I have seen. Sometimes this causes children to grow up with sexual disorders that cause them to join with abusive partners or many many partners. Sometimes it causes them to become molesters or abusers. Sometimes it causes them to have a faith in god/religion that others can't obtain as easily. BTW I've said "cause" or "causes" a lot, I realize this. I somewhat feel that people should be more careful with their virginity, for it is a special thing and they are lucky to have it. I myself feel like one of the ten luckiest people in the world. I was in a house of horrors so to speak which was constantly full of molestation and child rape. If I didn't get saved when I did I would have soon been a victim as well. All I'm trying to say is virginity is a sacred thing and child who are sexually abused never have to option (given to the rest of us) to cherish their virginity and give it to someone in a ceremonius way. Well I guess I've said enough if not too much repetitive nonsense. I have no life that's why I'm on here :lol:. Thanks for reading it all.
     
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    I strongly disagree with your first statement that we'll never be as happy as you. I'm glad that you're happy, but for some people, having sex comes as naturally as breathing and eating, and I don't like the right-wingers and virgins of the world telling us that we're destined to have an unhappy life because we had sex outside of a long-term relationship.

    Virginity is overrated! :p
     
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    LoveGirl: The whole post was that same statement. So whatever lol.
     
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    BRMSTN69: O. K. are we talking lifetime grand total or just one wild night here?
     
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    lol! Yeah, really...I think my record was 24 in one night. :lol:
     
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    Truthfully, I've only had one sexual partner. I was married to her for 20 years and even in the hard times I wasn't tempted to stray.

    Although I encouraged my 4 children to do the same, they became sexually active early in their teens, with the accompanying angst and pain. Now that they are all married all I can do is encourage them to be faithful to their partners.
     
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    Well, if you have been around the site, you would know we did this sometime last year. I have been with more than 250 partners.. yes I am a "slut", but right now I am in a monogomous relationship.. so I don't think I will be adding any more "notches to my post."
     
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    Javierdude22: I'll be the prude and rather conservative one on here.

    I have had sex with three people, and I'm 24 now. One of them is a long term relationship. I'm happy with my number, mostly because it is by choice. I know I'm an attractive guy, so being a quote on quote 'slut' (what the hell would make you call yourself this?) would be an easy path. But thats really all it is, easy.

    Mark, I think it is the biggest generalization éver that you made, about gay people and the number of guys they slept with. I think it is as random as straight people.
    It may be true for a number of people, but sure as hell not for all. I think it all depends on what type of environment you're surrounded by.

    I try to keep the number of people I have sex with limited to the ones I feel emotionally attracted to as much as physically. I know there is hardly a moral reason to keep the number low (there sure as hell ís one related to STD's) but since I consider having a loving, monogamous relationship as my highest good, I doubt I will attain that by sleeping around. As far as mý experience tells me, people usually do not really like their partners to having been past around more than a dollar bill, and I can't blame them. This is all even besides my personal metaphysical beliefs. I didnt want that to be the focus, because they are my personal convictions.

    I guess it all depends on what we're after. If your definition of 'relationship' is stretched or not even something you want, your fear of STD's low, and your hormones raging uncontrollably than why wóuld you hold back.

    I'm just a tad different.

    Javier
     
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    i've been with 18 different girls, and i'm 21...
    and those are all the girls where i actually have stuck my winky in, not counting all the blowjobs i've gotten :p
     
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    Hi,

    It is fascinating the diversity in opoinion on this subject. I have been a part of this group of and on since last August. (in different incarnations of course! LOL! ) I would be considered very conservative to most people that know me. I have for a number of reasons decided to stay celibate until marriage. That is not a decision that was not well thought out or stuck to during the challenging times and temptations. But I am glad that I am still standing at this point.I can not speak for anyone else concerning their happiness or lack of, but I am content in my decision.Being celibate does not however mean sexless or a person that lacks sensuality. I think I have a great deal of both of those. I have chosen at this point to direct my passions away from physical consummation and towards other pursuits.I do like talking and I can do a nasty piece of talking at that ( LOL! ) but at this time I am still waiting for that one right person with whom I will share my life and be able to explore the delights of physical union without fear or recrimination.
    Viva la difference!


    Naughty
     
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    Naughty, I am sure your decision will be well rewarded. Being able to give yourself for the first time to your true love is like a fairy tale, enjoy it!

    I had been a slut for many years, and decided to spend five years in celibacy recently, which I only broke this year. For me, the time directed to "other pursuits" was well spent, but now that it's over- WHAT A RELIEF!!! I like being sexually active, and am not interested in relinquishing my freedom to do so, so chalk another one up in the slut column! lol, I don't advocate for one side or the other, each person has to make the choice that's right for them. By the way, of the very few happy couples I know who are in ltrs, three of them are gay couples who have been together 15+ years! Monogamy is not exclusive to heteros. Truth be told, many heteros who think that they are in exclusive relationships actually are not!
     
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    I don't like to think of myself as a slut; I prefer the word popular! And I also can't agree with LoveGirl's assertion that our promiscuity keeps us from being happy. I'm very happy. Sex is enjoyable whether in a committed relationship or in a '57 Chevy parked behind a dumpster in a dark alley two blocks from the bar. Why is virginity supposedly so 'special'? I wasn't using it for anything before I misplaced it. And no way could I be happy with someone who referred to me as 'Sweetums' ... ick! :blink: Exact number? I never kept count. Let's just say that they don't teach kids how to count that high on Sesame Street and leave it at that. And in the eleven years that I've been sexually active, never once have I contracted an STD; ass piracy without a condom is not in my répertoire.
     
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    Javier, there have been many studies that show the average gay man has had many more partners than the average straight man. (Note the word, "average".) I feel confident about my "generalization", as you put it.
     
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    23cmargentina: I am a straight but I have had sex with a lot of people! And I am a profesional (escort service). I lost virginity at age 11.
     
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