Well I never drank or smoked until I turned 21. I always had the belief that alchohol of any kind tasted disgusting and smoking was just a big No-No. Then I got a little taste of what being drunk can do to you, and I guess the love/hate relationship began. Back then my body could handle drinking every night, without a need for a recovery period. But now that a little older, its harder and harder to recover, so I cant and dont want to do it anymore. I hope to believe that as people get older, the necessity to be under some kind of influence lessens, as other priorities increase. But of course, there will always be a % of people that drink no matter how much older they get. (When I say drink, I mean getting wasted. I still like to drink wine here and there, and when in the occasion, cocktails here and there.)
To answer your question, might not find that person at your age and environment, but you'll meet someone that fits you as you perfectly. Just look through the blurriness and you'll see..