I was a virgin until 21 years, 3 months. The first female I had sex with was at that time. She broke a chocolate covered cherry over my hard cock, then proceeded to orally clean it off. That was quite an experience. Never had sex again until 15 months later, the night of my wedding.
During my hitch in the Navy I had sex with two different women. My total is now 4.
Fast forward many years, after my wife died I began to play around. During this time I added 4 more female sexual encounters.
I have no idea of the number of male encounters. That number could be rather high.
My family, growing up, did not attend church with great regularity.