How many people have you had sex with? Whats your number?

[D_Doe_Ray_Mi]

I may have previously posted on this thread but 250+ and no I am not a slut. I love women and have had a lot of opportunities. Actually of those 250+ only two were one-night stands. I knew most everyone for at least three dates.

 

[FuzzyKen]

It is easy to be judgmental of others without knowing all the details and the big question which is not the number but "when" the number or numbers were achieved.

Back in the middle to later years of the 1970's those with overly moralistic viewpoints were shunned much as those of the more radical viewpoints on the safety of sex are today.

In a time when we did not know what was out there, I had sex comparable with many of that era. I also want to point out that in those years having had a history of over 100 sex partners was something that you achieved in often less than a year. Many people still alive look back and have histories that have four figures in them instead of three. Many are dead now and not able to look back. It depended greatly on what you did at the time and the odds of the transmisison of the original HIV retrovirus.

I had advantages in this and had enough medical knowledge to know the pathways and vectoring of most STD's at that time. I am alive today because of it.

I think that even asking this is an excuse just to be judgmental of other people. Because it can also depend on definitions of what constitutes sex. That varies from individual to individual. Some people even consider a simple JO to be an act of sex so taking that into consideration the most judgmental would consider 90% of us to be whores. If you do a mutual JO with some individual that is still a sex act and yet that does not constitute any possible health risk. This question in and of itself is a loaded question because of different definitions.

 

[YBNB]

Time to upset the trend and say... 3.

 

[Darkriff]

Only two. But what some would consider a fantasy/joke.

1.) My wife
2.) Her sister.

 

[dickerydoc]

a hell of a lot. Lost track, lol.

 

[bokenboywales]

not enough yet

 

[punk09]

Five women are the easy part to count.

As far as men go, I've lost count of the number because it is so high.

I prefer to measure men by the length.

Would wager that I've played with more than one mile of hard dick over the past 35 years since I first squirted.

 

[Oldschool79]

65 beautiful women, all in the span of 7 years. I was in love with most of them, even if just for a minute. Unfortunately never anything more fascinating than straight one-on-one. How my buddies always got the 3somes I'll never know.

 

[Stretchpants]

Zero.

 

[B_jeepguy2]

19

 

[deleted213967]

Only two. But what some would consider a fantasy/joke.

1.) My wife
2.) Her sister.

Well, as long as it's not

3.) Your sister.

I think we'll turn a blind eye.

 

[sab84]

Zero.

Ditto... if you consider penetrative.
Else, messed around with few...

 

[underneath3]

5 in one night. Grand total - no idea

 

[Marto.Melb]

43 women, more men, only 19 now, damn i miss school, so much easier

 

[ellehutton]

Loss count more than 200-less than 250
Some were all the way, most were oral evenly split give & receive, some were hand jobs...i just lump them all together.

I think the number is too high & never said it openly before here.
I started too early.

 

[D_Peter Stubigg]

Around 40, but I always lie and say 9 to 10, because even the girls that I sleep with think that makes me a slut.

 

[D_William Henry Hairyson]

just 3

 

[simbablk]

10.

Simba

 

[Drifterwood]

More than I have wanted, less than I have desired.

Just a note to those who don't believe some of the numbers. I have been sexually active for 25 years, some of the time I have been monogamous with a partner, some of the time not. If I had just slept with 4 people a year, that would put me into three digits. That said, I have had times when I got involved in certain scenes and was sleeping with ten different people a week, four one night is probably my most libertine moment. Recreational sex is just that, some are happy to do it, others are not.

 

[gamelton]

100+