It's not a competition. Some people are more extroverted. It should be what feels natural and best for the person. I don't go out as often (I need to find a more exciting town), but when I did...it was fun. However, some of my friends that went out with me did not meet as many people. Either way, fun was had by all. Nobody judged each other (except when I made out with a friend's girlfriend in front of him. I didn't know the guy, so not really a friend. More like an aquiantance. Plus, I didn't really like him. I knew the girl more. She made out with me to get back at him...so merely helping a friend in need). Point is numbers do not really matter.