How many straight guy would "try"

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Great question. Here’s my take as a 99% straight identifying male with a very strong libido and sex positive attitude:

I find all kinds of people attractive, interesting and sexually appealing. ...

..... I have had several PM’s on LPSG that lead me to believe I’m not alone in this feeling.

Thank you for this well constructed contribution. I agree, you are not alone. I have had many discussions with open minded people who feel this way. It really annoys mean when people respond to people like us and say we are bi or gay because we have touched a guy or had such feelings. I haven't touched a guy since I was 18 and have slept with 25 girls since then, but for the rest of my life I am labelled as "bi". rediculous in my opinion.
 

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consider myself mostly str8. but after i had checked out gay porn for a while, and cammed with dudes online, i wondered what itd be like to feel another dudes hard cock. so eventually found a j/o buddy. stroked with him a bunch of times (he seemed to be experimenting like me), trusted him, and ended up blowing each other. i fuck women, but occasionally get the urge for light play with dudes.

don't like kissing guys (just feels weird). and never tried anal anything, and i don't have a desire to. i dunno, weird?
 

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I see so, so, SO many threads on here where people want to fix that hard, fast, unflexible label on attractions and sex.

There are so many degrees of sexuality and so many points on the continuum. I've had a lot of experiences, as a gay man, with men who labeled themselves as straight. But there are also many straight men who cannot be convinced, no matter how awesome the head, how tempting the offer, or how intoxicating the wine is, to share their cock with anything but a beautiful lady.

I'm a voyeur, so for many "str8" men who I met and watched it was the thrill of being watched, but not a specific attraction to me or my genitalia. For some men (like unzipped student mentions) it was the thrill of a particular play activity, but not the whole kissing/fucking deal. There's so many possible things that go into the equation of exciting your brain + exciting your body = erection and explosion.

Of course, it's a matter of degrees. If you're billing yourself as str8 and yet all of your time is spent looking for cock? Well, then something's off balance with how you're billing yourself (and kinda goes into that whole internalized homophobia business....) But if you're at a party with your girlfriend, and a hot dude shows a big bulge that you grab a hold of...or you have an urge to kiss him....that also doesn't make you 1000% irrevocably gay forever and ever.

EDITED TO ADD: I have to say as a gay man I've not really experienced this in reverse. I've always been 1000% all about the cock. But I do know some gay men who are very sexually comfortable with women.
 
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Guys, totally 100% gay man here, NEVER, have I been attracted to females. I have NEVER had sex with a female. I do not understand why some gay men think that Straight guys want to have sex with other men. Why do you keeps asking these questions. If a man sucks or fucks another man, he is not straight.....it's that simple.
 

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These threads always make me laugh, the fact that there are guys who 'identify' as straight and do stuff with other guys gives reason for the OP's questions.

I don't think it does anything constructive when people troll on these threads, especially when the OP is looking for input from those who've participated in the questions posed, not people who just want to voice their opinion (which is fine of course, but IMO not when you're opinion is just trolling).

Just because you call a guy (who defines himself as "straight") gay because he fucked a guy or whatever, doesn't change the fact that his "9-5" could be with a woman.

Hell the number of married guys that end up on hookup sites must indicate that this isn't as cut and dry as straight, bi or gay (or any other group)?

I've a friend who I see occasionally to fulfil certain needs he has, that his girlfriend cannot (she does not have a penis). I think this is one of the rare situations where everyone involved is aware of what is going on, but even when he was single, he would look to date women etc., only coming for cock when he had that urge.

Personally, I'd define him as being more straight than bi or gay, but truthfully, I find it hard to define somebody 100% into any of these groups.

I realise that this has probably become a rant :( but yeah that's my encounter and 2c
 

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... don't like kissing guys (just feels weird). and never tried anal anything, and i don't have a desire to. i dunno, weird?

Absolutely nothing weird about that to me, it's exactly the way I feel. And I honestly believe that a great many other guys would admit to those same feelings were it not for the puritanical social mores and taboos under which most of us were raised.

... If a man sucks or fucks another man, he is not straight.....it's that simple.

WRONG!!! There's nothing simple about it at all. You're just trying to simplify other people to match your own limited understanding of human sexuality. You would do yourself a favor were you to abandon the labels and open your mind.
 

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Never done anything with another guy IRL but I've always wanted to try it.

no sex and nothing intimate, at all. just touching and exploring each other, and most likely mutual masturbation and frotting. idk, I've always wanted to do that with another guy and just want to know what it's like to feel another dick. that's why I "label" myself as 20% gay on here - I don't find guys attractive but there's something about a penis that I can't ignore or even understand.

Which makes you exactly like most guys in here.
I've been trying to figure it out for the better part of a century.
 

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I dont get these threads.. I mean if you "try" gay shit ( no offense intented ).. by definition you are now gay or bi , lmao..

You will never be straight again..Try telling your boys that you just took a cock in your ass, lol.. They will not think you are straight.

That's why you don't tell the straight guys. They pester you for some action, for the rest of your life.
 

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I have been meeting with this guy for about 7 years. I am married and he is too. I was 42 and he was 24 when we first met. It started out me just sucking him off and that was it. He loved it and said his wife would not do this for him. After a few meetings he wanted to fuck me so I let him. He said my ass was so tight and it felt so good - better than his wife and he LOVED the tightness of my ass. about 2 years ago he said he wanted to try and suck my cock so I let him. After that we started sucking each other and he always fucks me real good. As I suck him - I have started fingering him and it drives him wild. the last time we were together - he said he wanted to be fucked so he sat on my cock and rode me real good. He went crazy bouncing up and down. Now when we get together - all he wants to do is get fucked. Now he wants me to set up an orgy for him and wants to be gang banged. He asked me would I consider him gay, bi or what. I told him he was Bi like me. He said he never thought m2m sex would be so good. Funny thing is he never messed around before, even when he was younger and in school. Does anyone have any experiences of learining to love m2m sex later - older than 18 yrs. old. Thanks
 

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Which makes you exactly like most guys in here.
I've been trying to figure it out for the better part of a century.
Yeah, I mean all of us are on here for some reason. If we don't have actually have a big cock, then we have some obsession with them. :p

I think some of the guys here would want to have sex with another guy, though. :/ I'm not really looking for that.
 
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That girls are not "doing it" for them.
Alot of guys lose interest in women.

You say what?
I had anal/oral sex recently after breaking up with a girlfriend. I wasn't expecting or looking for anything when a guy I was hanging with propositioned me. I was horny, curious and hadn't tried anal sex, so I was game.

I have no issues with what we did, we had fun, we fulfilled our needs and then we went to a bbq and that was that. Am I looking for another experience, no. I just figured that I had to try kissing/fucking a guy to see how it made me feel and quite frankly my cock enjoyed it, but the rest of me wasn't craving it. It was an experience.
 

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WRONG!!! There's nothing simple about it at all. You're just trying to simplify other people to match your own limited understanding of human sexuality. You would do yourself a favor were you to abandon the labels and open your mind.

Silvertip...I have a very open mind, and live my life openly and freely. This question was asked to "Straight" men.
For me, the term 'straight " tell me that person is only attracted to and engages in sexual contact with members of the opposite sex.
The term "gay" tell me that person is only attracted to and engages in sexual contact with member of the same sex.
This question was not asked to Bi sexual men....that term for me tells me that they are attracted to and engage in sexual contact with both of members of sex. (sadly there is no way to indicate this on our profile page)

I was stating that straight men like straight sex and gay men like gay sex, and neither shall cross over.

So if you answer Elixer26's question as he asked it, which was to "Straight men" ....it is that simple. From my point of view.

:biggrin1:
 

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I'm a man who identifies as straight, but I have had sex with other men on numerous occasions throughout my life. I don't want to live in a relationship with another man. I did, in fact, have a relationship with another man in college that started as friendship, then turned into an intimate, sexual relationship. In retrospect, I was probably in love with him, and he with me, but I determined that was not what I wanted in my life, nor how I saw myself.

So, I've had relationships only with women since then, and with one woman primarily for most of my adult life. My m2m interactions are primarily, if not exclusively, due to convenience. Simply put, I like sex more and want more of it (as in frequency) than my wife. Men have been easy, convenient, and hassle free partners for me, but I'm not looking to fall in love and settle down with a man.

I really think that the fact that I can find another man online (or in the past, in a men's room in college or whatever) who, like me, enjoys sex without the need for emotional baggage, guilt, long term commitment, jealousy, or all the other complications is THE NUMBER ONE reason I've done the whole sex with men thing. Sex with another man is just that--sex. We enjoy it, get sweaty, get off, and get on with our lives. I've had some longer term buds, which is even better. Then I just have to call him up, say "you have some time today?" and we can meet and help out each other. No wooing, begging, dinner buying, or guilt is involved.

And lest it sound less exciting, the sex I've had with other guys is typically very hot. Hell, we have the same equipment, so we both are pretty expert at how it operates. I have spent some afternoons naked in bed with another man that were mind-blowing sexually, and it's not just all what part goes where. When I'm able to connect in some other way, it's very cool, and makes the physical sex better.

So, go figure. You can define it as narrowly as you want. If you want to say that someone who has ever had sex with someone of the same gender is definitely NOT STRAIGHT, then go ahead. The experiences of thousands (millions?) of people say otherwise, as do the experts in the field. But most of us live by our own definitions for just about everything important anyway, so whatever...