how many times actually do you have sex per week

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    hi guys , i'm pretty new here and i'm asking a serious question ......i'd realy love to know how many times you ACTUALLY have sex per week .not how many times you,d like it ......i'll tell you why .....my boyfriend only wants to make love twice a week and i want it lots more .....hes 40 i,m 38 and i,m trying to find out if i'm over sexed or if hes under sexed .......so maybe you guys could help me out with actual times per week and your age so i can work out if hes jjust normal ..... hope you,ll help out here thanks
     
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    well,i'm 55 as is my wife.she only wants it once or twice a month and i'm good for once a week.sex,not just cumming.i can cum once a day comfortably.
     
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    thanks alien51 for answering .....hope i get some more replies .....x
     
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    Not sure how to answer your question... there are too many variables.

    Currently I'm not seeing anyone - so, zero.

    If I am seeing someone - the limiting factor usually isn't how many times we want to do it, it's our schedules. Unless I'm living with her, we usually only get to see each other a couple of days a week.
     
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    It really varies. Right now I'm not in a "relationship." I see a neighbor of mine from time to time for some tummy-slapping :tongue: but it really varies. Could be 2-3 times in a week, or we could go a few weeks without. When I'm in a relationship it depends on schedules and geography. I have a fairly high sex drive and I'd say that all things considered my ideal would be 3-4 times/week, but then again I love long, crazy sessions that take all night :biggrin1: , so perhaps it's good I don't always want it every day :eek: .
     
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    At the moment ZERO! But when I had lots of desire for my ex I usually made love at least 5 times per week. As my desire for her wained it became less and less!:(
     
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    I'm mid 50's, wife late 40's. avg. 3-4 times a week.
     
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    I know it may be "nit picking" to some but a bit of clarity on the definition of what you consider "sex" is important.
    Even when there are times that are a "zero" because there is no current relationship, the elimination of "morningwood" or a "pisser hardon" may be necessary before heading off to work. So to the point - is masterbation considered "sex" to you?
     
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    Oh Sex..........................sure has been awhile.
     
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    I was going to make a joke about having ZERO sex lately.:tongue: Everyone else has said it though.

    Instead, I will say that I have an active sex drive, and would enjoy having sex at least once a day with a partner, if possible...
     
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    With gf, three to four times per week; solo, much more often.:rolleyes:
     
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    When im not on probation by my doctor we usually work on a twice a day schedule, sometimes more. I'm 20, almost 21, hes recently 21, both in college,so, we have plenty of free time for it.
     
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    My husband and I are 52 and 42, respectively. We have sex 3-4 times a week. For the first few years of our relationship it seems like we were having sex all the time! We probably averaged 7-10 times per week.

    kat
     
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    My partner (34 yo) and I (38 yo) average three days a week. We can go a couple of times per day on average as well. :wink:
     
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    My partner (42yo) and I (49yo) average twice a week but enjoy solo a couple of times in addition.

    :biggrin1:
     
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    Yes..as SH said depends on schedulle and geography...but the nice thing is when happens to see just once that week and have sex 7 times in 15h....than was just like compensating for everyday it was not happening...

    In a live in relationship for sure every morning and if possible every night too.

    But is good to be hungry sometimes...:cool:
     
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    It ebbs and flows from week to month.

    I'm 50 and my wife is 37, together almost 8 years, and we have a 2-1/2 yr old little girl

    Now it's anywhere from 7 times a week to 3-4 per week depending on schedules

    During the first 3 years it was average twice every day,

    Probably in the two years after that it was once every day

    Having a baby definitely cut into the frequency for a while, down to once or twice a week, owing to major lack of rest and breastfeeding schedules, but we are back to what we like

    We now need to get a better lock for our bedroom :redface:
     
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    Man do I have it bad. 1 to 2 times a month. My wife is high strung. 3 kids. Both of us have our own companies. At least 3 times a week by my self. My wife could go with out it for months...
     
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    Well it really depends, Usually what is going on during the week, Sometime it is once or twice a week some time four times a week. Lately it has been about once or twice a week.my hubby is 37 and I am 34.
     
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    Hah.

    At my alma mater we had time to eat or sleep, but not both.

    And sex? Double hah. Fastest possible way to flunk out, next to alcohol - but we didn't have time to drink, either.

    Later, after that hectic era, the girls all seemed to want it every hour on the hour. I tried to keep them down to about one a week, not very successfully.
     
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