how many times actually do you have sex per week

[rawbone8]

I should add that since we both work at home, we have more opportunity. No commutes, and on occasion our dear little loinspawn is at a neighbour's home for a couple of hours during the day.

 

[Lordpendragon]

I have a friend your age who bangs her 50 YO hubby at least 15 times a week. Dirty mare, she's probably doing him right now.

You shouldn't have a problem training BF gradually - I think it's about habit and we have enormous egos.

Personally I practice tantra to a degree so sex is more than numbers - I am more than happy to have very long lovemaking sessions without ejaculating. This also keeps me pretty much horny all the time. :redface:

 

[tiff86]

My bf and I usually have sex every day, although it's sorta easy since we live really close. We're in college so we have a lot to do but schedules are flexible and such. Sometimes if we're both around on breaks we have it more than once a day. We're pretty lucky I think cuz we both want it a lot, if one of us didn't there might be a problem! When we started having sex he wanted it more than me but now that I have so many orgasms it's so good I want it all the time too :biggrin1: .

 

[AlteredEgo]

You are not oversexed. He is not undersexed. You simply do not desire the same amount of sex. Neither of you is abnormal. Got a rabbit (and bartteries)?

 

[D_Sir Dancealot]

Normally 3 times per week But I would do it two or three times a day if the situation was right!

 

[OBsessed]

I'd say 3-4 times during the week, and 2-3 times a day on the weekends.

I'm 22, he's 27.

 

[SR_Pepe_LePube]

Man do I have it bad. 1 to 2 times a month. My wife is high strung. 3 kids. Both of us have our own companies. At least 3 times a week by my self. My wife could go with out it for months...

Likewise, my wife's busy schedule has reduced her libido so I too have taken comfort in fine tuning my masturbation techniques! I lucky if we have sex once a week at the moment.

 

[11incher]

Every day

 

[bluekarma]

Every other night is the norm for us. We sometimes meet for a lunch date during the week and have a little fun. I'm 24 and he's 28. We have a small child as well, so we have to be creative. Our drives used to be way mismatched, but somehow it all worked out.

 

[himu]

well... it seems that 3-4 times a week is the most common senario.<br>
I'm 36 and my wife is 31. we manage to do it 4-5 times a week. <br>
Although she is ok with it.. i wish we could do it as often as once a day... like the earlier days... :tongue: :biggrin1:

 

[ClaireTalon]

Probably 2 or 3 times a week, four when I'm very horny. Sometimes I also go for a week without, but at the end of that week I'm walking like a horny cat, ass forward and chirping at everything vaguely looking like a big pleasurer. Well, happens rarely.

I want to tie in another question here. What do you prefer: Many short, shallow sessions in a week, or fewer, more intense and deeply felt sessions?

 

[Ethyl]

I want to tie in another question here. What do you prefer: Many short, shallow sessions in a week, or fewer, more intense and deeply felt sessions?

My preference is a mix of lots of long, intense sessions punctuated by shorter ones. The only trouble is when the quickie unintentionally lengthens and you realize you're late for work, app't, etc. :biggrin1:

 

[stud_hunter]

My preference is a mix of lots of long, intense sessions punctuated by shorter ones. The only trouble is when the quickie unintentionally lengthens and you realize you're late for work, app't, etc. :biggrin1:

Indeed! "Unintentionally". Uh huh :tongue: . I am a greedy one. Give me a quickie and I usually want it to turn into a longie, and I do love those long, intense marathons, hence my preference for guys with stamina :biggrin1: . More important than size IMO. :biggrin1:

 

[husbands_hung_well]

my husband is 40 and I am 26 we make love twice a week usually. He works 2nd shift and I have to get up early every morning, so we don't get the opportunity but for weekends.

My ex and I would much more often. Like, every night. He was a sex fene...I guess that was ok with me too

 

[ClaireTalon]

My preference is a mix of lots of long, intense sessions punctuated by shorter ones. The only trouble is when the quickie unintentionally lengthens and you realize you're late for work, app't, etc. :biggrin1:

Indeed! "Unintentionally". Uh huh :tongue: . I am a greedy one. Give me a quickie and I usually want it to turn into a longie, and I do love those long, intense marathons, hence my preference for guys with stamina :biggrin1: . More important than size IMO. :biggrin1:

Makes a great excuse, doesn't it? "'Scuse me I'm late, but I had this hot young stud over tonight, couldn't stop boffing him this morning!"

Personally I'm a fan of stretching thing, so long, intense sessions have a clear preference. And then spice it up with the occasional panties-to-the-side, up against the wall quickie.

 

[bluekarma]

This description is ultra hot!!

And then spice it up with the occasional panties-to-the-side, up against the wall quickie.

 

[50%more]

In a new relationship twice a week is all I can or want to handle. It takes me a month or so to feel comfortable with a woman romantically. When I sleep with one woman (who I am comfortable with) almost every night my sex drive goes up. I think it has something to do with the comfort level and her pheremones increasing my own natural drive. Then I can have sex at least once a day. Three times in one day is not uncommon. Especially on a sunday when we are together the whole day.

I prefer long extended session. It is like an exercise that helps both sperm production and the length of time and intensity of my erections.

 

[Doc]

Alot. And certainly alot more than when I was in my 20's. I must be getting better at this business.

 

[Mumzi]

We might have sex 2x ,sometimes 3 times a week. It takes me a good 3-4 days to feel horny again.
Although that can change at any time. But if I know he's really interested, then sure.

When my husband wakes up with a hard-on he takes care of that in the shower.
I am not quite human in the morning.
He has said he'd rather have sex when I'm really ready. I do think I've slowed down in the last few years.
My sex drive is still very strong tho. I think he enjoys the fact that I often seduce him.

 

[newyoungone]

i think it really has to depend on the chemisty and point in your life.

if you are feeling horny as a dog and need to get some and have found a suitable person to do it with, then what's going to stop you from having sex as much as possible.

there was some study a while ago stating that it was healthy for a couple to have sex 2 times a week, it was even healthier if they managed to have sex 3-4 times a week.

personally i'd say that 2-4 times a week is my choice, but then again depending upon the week i might not want sex at all.