How many times has your heart been broken?

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My heart's been broken so many times I've lost count. The worst part is, I've never had it feel full. No one I liked ever liked me back, so I only know heartbreak and not love. It's one of the reasons why I don't even bother trying to date or have sex anymore.
 

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My heart's been broken so many times I've lost count. The worst part is, I've never had it feel full. No one I liked ever liked me back, so I only know heartbreak and not love. It's one of the reasons why I don't even bother trying to date or have sex anymore.

I know how you feel.Id give anything to find someone that loves me the same as i love them, it must be amazing. :frown1:
 

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Twice. Still getting over the last relationship, though. It has gotten a lot better.
 

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him...and I have no idea why it ended.



Yep;
LPSG WELCOME, to life matey ...
feel sure we are all destined to experience such ha
usually more difficult to accept when younger huh?
perhaps age offers a form of immunity?
 

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Twice by men, but to be fair I broke a couple of womens hearts so maybe it was Karma. The last broken heart for me stung so bad i didn't think I could survive it. Its been a few years now and I found a great guy... problem is I feel there's a part of me that wont open up again... here's hoping with time and trust it will happen...
 

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Five times by women and about ten when my dogs and cats died. The last girl was July of last year and I still think about her.
 
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Once by my ex-fiance because I found out the charming person I fell for was a lie. I still stayed with him for almost two years before the abuse was too much. I'm quite happy to have no contact with him at all (and haven't since we parted ways except for a period of time where he stalked me and one other time when he contacted me).

Twice with people I met online whose words were nothing but lies. People too cowardly to ever meet and give things a chance. I still hurt over both of them and mourn what might have been.

Once when I was still in the hospital after delivering my son and seeing his adoptive parents walking away with him. I cried myself to sleep nearly every night for a year following that.

Throughout all the cruddy things I've endured/lived through, I've learned a lot. I don't want to repeat any of it, I have things I regret in my life, but I value the things I've learned.
 
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Only once in a major way. I feel like the last 22 years of my life was one big waste of time. Ah, hindsight is 20/20.

Never a waste of time. Never say that! There were times of happiness - there had to have been. You loved. There was a time she loved you, whatver that meant to her, she did love you. It was not a waste. It may be over, but it was not a waste!

As far as my broken heart, it has happened twice. Once in my early twenties and once a few months ago. Between, my heart has been kicked around and bruised pretty bad. Maybe I'll be in love again, but I don't think so. Barely survived the first time and the second time kind of felt like it should be the last time. I'm too old for this shit.

But like everything else in my life, I regret nothing.
 

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If I had a time machine...

Well, you don't. And you are an awesome, smart and deadly sexy man now. Who knows who you would be if the past 22 years hadn't happened? Ok, you're not perfect, but you're pretty damn good Mr. S and those 22 years made you who you are. And I like you! :hug: :kiss:
 

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You're adorable, but the past 22 years have been mostly ugly. I think we both tried, but it just failed.


*sigh* Whatever. At least no one can say you gave up too easily. I still let my previous statement stand - hug & kiss included.

And yes, I am adorable.