Here's the thing...the first time I had sex with my wife was actually our 5th try. Yes...FIFTH! The first FOUR tries ended with her crying about not being able to get me inside her. Now, I'm not carrying a real club down there, but I'm pretty big compared to most (7.5" long, 6.3" around), and she'd never had anything like it (I was her 3rd man). I just couldn't get IN! We'd try, and try, and try, until I was just spent and flaccid, unable to go on. Now, this was over a year ago, and we're right as rain now (although I still have to work her up pretty good first...I'm a "cunning linguist"). Any one else have an issue like this?