For years I could never get around to having anal sex, because I couldn't get over the idea of feces. But lately, my new girlfriend expressed how much she enjoyed it, and we fooled around a bit, without any disastorous results. So now, I'm intrigued. The problem is, I am still put off by the feces issue. And even though I would want to try it, I wouldn't really want to get into it with her without her getting an enema. I just wanted to know what most women think about anal sex, and if they ever prepare for it when they do have it? Also I wanted to know if it really is worth the trouble for the women in general, maybe it just isn't that pleasurable?