How much do you need your preferred size?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Drifterwood, Jun 15, 2009.

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Sex and your preferred size

  1. I only get off with my preferred larger size

    8 vote(s)
    18.2%
  2. I only "really" get off with my preferred size

    8 vote(s)
    18.2%
  3. I can get off with pretty much any size

    9 vote(s)
    20.5%
  4. I can only get off with my preferred smaller/avergae size

    2 vote(s)
    4.5%
  5. I don't get off with any size

    2 vote(s)
    4.5%
  6. It has nothing to do with the size, preferred or not, it is the guy

    15 vote(s)
    34.1%
  1. Drifterwood

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    I am taking my other poll as a yes, so here is what was on my mind.

    It is more about need than preference.

    I had a casual partner recently who said something that stuck in my mind. "I need a big cock to really get off." I thought that this was an interesting comment.

    Anyway, I hope the choices give you your required options.
     
  2. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I said that I can get off with pretty much any size. That's 100% true. I have an ideal size, but it's really not important at all. Only reason I even have one is because that's the one that feels "best" and stretches me just right and all that good stuff. :tongue: Doesn't affect my ability to get off, though.
     
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    :tongue: I said it first this time, though! So YOU get out of MY head! :biggrin:
     
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    I voted I only get off with my preferred larger size even though that may not *technically* be true. What I do know is that I do not have vaginal orgasms with average cocks. But I do with a larger than average one. So yeah, bigger than average is very important to me.
     
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    Though the sample size is small, the results are pretty much what I would have expected from any group of sexually aware/liberated women, and judging by the number of views to comments, it seems to be something that people (men) want to know.
     
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    I prefer at least 7-8 inch minimum penis length but I've gotten off with smaller. It depends on how excited and how thorough the guy is in pleasing me.
     
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    Maybe a tangent for this thread would be, how much of your preference is mental rather than physical? Visual vs. tactile? It took me awhile to admit it but as a male who has had sex with other males, I eventually realized he had to be bigger than me or I just couldn't get into it, much less get off on it. No vaginal orgasms involved--mostly psychological though certainly my preconception/fantasy of wanting a cock big enough to fill my large hand and then some is a physical sensation factor.
     
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    I take the "really" getting off to mean getting off from penetrative sex alone. That's how I mean it and it's what I chose.

    Most of us can 'get off' without any insertion at all so saying that the preferred size is the only way we'd climax at all would be more of a stretch than the size itself.
     
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    Pretty much any size - number of orgasms are the same, however they are better and seem to last longer with a larger guy
     
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