How Much is Sex a Male Prerogative

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  1. dingdong

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    (in straight sex).

    Aside from the physical factor that the penis goes INTO the woman, sex has always had the male in the dominant role.

    Even if the guy simply lays on his back during sex, and takes a completely passive role, the guy will still say "I fucked her really good"; the woman is unlikely to say "I fucked him really good".

    Or are times changing now? Discuss :biggrin1:
     
  2. Ed69

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    Not in my world!The first time my wife invited me to her bed she was the dominant one.She still is when it comes to sex.I'm just not one to be pushy or forcefull when it comes to sex.
     
  3. B_Artful Dodger

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    I love both. To be dominant and dominated are both pretty hot. You gotta mix these things up to keep on having fun :wink:
     
  4. W/In 1 Stand Dev

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    You should head ever to bust.com, which I guess is a website for some woman's magazine. They have an internet forum that you can peruse without having to register and log in. There is some sub forum called "daily portions" or something like that.

    Read some of their stories and I think your opinion might just change on who the dominant sex is... sometimes.

    The stories or accounts of their (supposed?) daily sex lives are HAWT!
     
  5. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Its just a little game we ladies like to play, letting you guys think you are in control when really we control how you fuck and when you fuck. You said it yourself, "you go into us" and you think we aren't controlling that? :yup: Sex is the womans prerogative, always has been and always will be
     
  6. tiggerpoo

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    Definitely not in our case. My gf is a lady in the lounge but a whore in the bedroom. She drives me crazy. Love it to bits.
     
  7. B_cherryplum69

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    Bust.com is a cool site, everyone should check it out
     
  8. D_Ed69s girl

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    women aren't much for bragging about there dominate role play in the bedroom. But we do love to be both sometime dominate and other times submissive. Men feel like they have scored because the gal road him like a horse. But a lady is more likely to say "he was a good ride".
     
  9. D_Coyne Toss

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    My wife and I swap roles too, I can be dominant, but also dominated. Plus, at times, there is simply no dominator.

    I do agree that ladies tend to be smarter and let us guys think to be in control.
     
  10. MuscledHorse

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    I think it wovolves the giver/receiver idea. As a baottom jock I take guys and always say I got fucked, but any of them will tell you I'm the agressive one.
     
  11. No_Strings

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    I think 'times changed' before you were born. :wink:
     
  12. Mr. Snakey

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    It all depends who we are talking about. Its 50/50 here.
     
  13. B_625girth

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    I agree. probably the first time, the male is the dominant one, even if the lady picked you up. in my experience, by the time it is bedding time, the male dominates. later, the lady may take her turn. I love women who could fuck me as good as I fucked them. this usually involves the woman on top, bouncing on my fat cock, boobs bouncing. me just kicking back, enjoying the beauty on top of me, her getting off, me getting off, and just the whole moment. nothing better. and the male can dominant in these moments by staying large and hard, refusing to blow. i'm getting horny just typing this, time to fix that.
     
  14. lucky8

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    I usually like to be in control, but if the girl knows what she's doing, i'll let her take the reigns. I get bored laying there with a girl riding me...I feel like i should be contributing too. I think it's best when we're both humping each other, because it also gets boring when a girl just lays there like a dead fish expecting me to make her magically orgasm without any help from her
     
  15. DC_DEEP

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    I would be more inclined to say sex is not a prerogative for anyone.
     
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