I'm a key holder to someone who lives across Canada from me. He initiated this, and he is very closely connected to me. We have had one night stand in the past, and he is older than me. He was unable to make it back to town this summer, and he said in return I can ask for anything I want. (Keeping in mind I have total control of his orgasm, and whatnot). I have always been fascinated with PA Piercings. So I posed it. He said my wish is his command. Which was the easy part. I know how scared he is to get it done, but that is how far he is willing to go to fuck me. He will be home around Christmas time, and I'm very excited. But I want a large gage PA, I'm thinking 0ga size. My question is... how far to too far? How much is it to ask for someone to permanently 'mutilate' themselves for sex?