How Much Is Too Much?

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  1. jdoe86

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    A question for the female members of this forum: How much sex is too much? My new girl friend and I have been together for just over two months and we have sex at least two times a day minimum. I wake her in the morning with oral sex and then intercourse for maybe 15 or 20 minutes. At night before dinner we usually go again and then depending on how early she has to get up in the morning, we go again before we go to sleep. There have been days when we spent all day in the bedroom and go 5 or 6 times. These last few days, she has been a little on the sore side. So we've been trying to hold off, but we can't keep our hands off of each other.

    Is there a point where you can get "too much"? I don't want to wear her out (she's 19, I'm 44). I have never had a girl who could keep up with my libido (except her) and I'm afraid I'm going to cause her pain or something. Your input would be wonderful... Thanks
     
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    Not a female but I gotta say..."HIGH FIVE MAN!!":biggrin1: wear her out!

     
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    It's difficult when a couple have different ideas of how much sex is the right amount, often the man is told that he'll have to settle for however much sex the woman wants, but I don't believe that's fair, a fair compromise would be he tones his wants down a bit and she tries to pep hers up so they meet in the middle. I think sex is the most fun you can have so I've never thought any amount was too much.
     
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    Everyone has their own opinion of how much is too much. Its hard to say.
     
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    jdoe86, I can't tell, are you bragging or complaining? :rolleyes::tongue:

    For heavens sake if she is becoming physically sore down there you need to stop and give her time to heal a bit. Also, use some lube! It will help cut down on the friction which often causes the soreness.
     
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    If she is sore then thats her body telling her she needs t rest, if she likes it or not. Maybe you should give her a day or two to recover and stick to jacking off.

    Also i think in the early stages while it is fun to have the all day bedroom marathons its good to hold back a bit and save some for later into the relationship.
     
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    my gf almost sore all the time since we do it 2-3 times. I don't doubt what you are saying though but I havent had a girl who could do it 4 times in one day. I have done it 5-6 times in a day but with different girls. Anyways, old memories.
    One girl only, who I did it 3 times with her during a 3-4 hour period since we were at an apt at the beach and we did it 2 times then went down to the beach for 2 hours... then we did it for like 30 mnutes and I had to jack off to cum... I would say if we did it another time she was going to be sore for 2 week since I remeber her telling me she coulnt sit for 2 days.
    I been having 50-1:20 minutes sex sessions.. it just feels amazing like that. ;( even though I am using condom...
     
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    I could break your record!
    I have way over done it before.
     
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    I've regularly had sex six or seven times a day for weeks on end, I don't easily get sore but if I do get a little 'raw' feeling I find that just makes me cum even more easily. I'm just a love machine :tongue:
     
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    Well, my girlfriend has only been with 3 other guys and I am the largest of them (2 of them were in her words "breakfast sausages"). Finding a girl with a high sex drive is just wonderful, but most of the girls I have been with "burn out" after a matter of a week or two of nonstop fucking. I'm just wondering if there are any women out there who can handle it non-stop and if there are any tricks as per say. Oh, also, is there any really good lubes? We have tried a few, but they seem to irritate her.
     
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    I've found that with guys jdoe, they say they want an unlimited amount of sex and for a while they can keep up but they can't keep up long term.
     
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    Very true. After the honey moon stage they wear out quickly and almost never sustain the 2-3 times a day
     
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    With my ex it took around two years before he wasn't able to manage with the amount of sex I wanted, but before that we'd been more or less having sex as often as we could.
     
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    What she said...
     
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    Well, at 44, I still have the sex drive I had when I was in my 20's. No Viagra or anything artificial other than a hot girlfriend who wants it as much as me. I also forgot to mention that I only cum 1 or 2 times a night, but I can get hard 4 or 5 times (or as needed). And we go anywhere from 15 minutes to over an hour of straight fuck, not counting foreplay.
     
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    My sex drive just keeps on getting bigger, I think in part it's because the older I get the more possibilities I see in sex.
     
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    Me and a girl once decided to fuck in every room of her house. We had sex 11 times that day. That is WAAAAAY too much for an average day, but I think 5-6 times a day, if I was just lying around doing nothing, would be very possible if not a little low of an estimate.
     
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    how big r u?
     
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    Obviously, it really depends on the people involved but you need to communicate with each other...if she's sore, she needs some time to heal and she should be telling you that.

    I thought I had a high sex drive, but my current boyfriend is way higher than mine and anyone I've been with before. We had to really start out slow (well slow for him 2-3 times the first night) because I got really sore the first times because he is also the largest guy I've been with. I only get to see him once or twice a week as we both have kids but 5-6 times in one night is not uncommon. Now that some time has passed and I can handle his size better it's usually about 3 times. I'd honestly be happier with a little less more like once-twice a night but since we have to deal with our schedules and he is happier with a lot more, I will do a little more...but really there's no way I could handle 5-6 times a night on a regular basis. Like spoiled princess said you both may need to compromise a bit...but that is totally up to the two of you.
     
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    in my opinion you can never have TOO MUCH sex. engaging in sex two times a day should be the minimum requirement. i say go at it as many times as you possibly can. (my record was 8 times in the course of a day, but i'm sure other members rank higher.) think of it this way, you're doing your duty to service your girlfriend and you're keeping her happy. and now i'm jealous dammit. i wish all the men i've been with had your libido.
     
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