I haven't been on a whole lot lately because I've been reeling from a nasty break up. I met my ex about 6 months ago at a bar, and we ended up ditching our friends and talking all night. I had been single for a couple years at this point, she had been single for about 6 months, after a relationship of seven years. Her ex is insane. Insane is a nice way to put it. She had a restraining order on him, and did things such as randomly violate his order conditions by showing up her place drunk, high or both at 4 am. She originally left him because he was (and still is abusive). She said she was completely over him, wanted nothing to do with him, yada yada yada. I was stupid enough to believe her. Unfortunately. She then rescinded the restraining order about three months into the relationship saying she wanted to make amends with him and get him to leave her alone. I was fine with that. About a month ago, all of the sudden, he's engaged. She said it herself, he was doing this to spite her. So, what does my ex do? Dump me, and less than a month later, she's engaged to him, and saying she doesn't care what her friends say (or her parents for that matter). I treated her very well, so this came as a major shock to me. Her friends consistently commented that I was a very good thing for her, and her parents loved me. This girl has four degrees, and yet she's now engaged to a guy who's destined to make $10 an hour for the rest of his life. Maybe one of the ladies explain this. I'm at a complete loss.