How Often Do Women Use Escorts?

[wallyj84]

I love the show 90 Day Fiance. This season there is a person on there named Ash. He says he is a "relationship coach", but to make a long story short everyone in the 90 Day Fiance fan community is convinced that he is an escort. I have no idea if he is, but I find the idea odd because I've always thought that outside of a few special cases it was very rare for women to hire escorts. Am I wrong for thinking that? Is prostitution more common among women than I've been led to believe?

 

[MickeyLee]

A friend drove an Escort for years She picked it up as a beater to run errands in, something she wouldn't mind getting paint and what not all over the interior. This was a Northern State, the open bed of a pick up would not do.

She gave it the best paint jobs! There would be theme parties, we'd all get together to repaint the old Escie. Lego was a personal favorite. Pretty sure the lil car the could is still going and road worthy.

 

[deleted924715]

I have never/would never. The thought of it doesn't appeal to me at allllllllll.

Don't know anyone who has.

 

[286798]

I've never heard of any woman I know of paying for sex/companionship.

 

[wallyj84]

A friend drove an Escort for years She picked it up as a beater to run errands in, something she wouldn't mind getting paint and what not all over the interior. This was a Northern State, the open bed of a pick up would not do.

She gave it the best paint jobs! There would be theme parties, we'd all get together to repaint the old Escie. Lego was a personal favorite. Pretty sure the lil car the could is still going and road worthy.

It is a serious question. Please give me a serious answer.

 

[MickeyLee]

It is a Wally question.

And Escie was a seriously awesome car. Like, imagine Lego Mad Max? That level of awesome.

 

[wallyj84]

I have never/would never. The thought of it doesn't appeal to me at allllllllll.

Don't know anyone who has.

Tbubs here (f)...I’ve never used an escort or a prostitute, and I’m not aware of any instances where any of my female friends have, either.
....but then, they also don’t tell me everything, and I’ve never even used an Uber or Lyft....so maybe not the most helpful answer

Thank you very much for the replies.

 

[Mittimer]

I never have and see no reason to do so. I'm not against it on a moral or ethical level, I just have no need for it.

None of the ladies I know have done so either.

 

[norwegianintrovert]

I'm sure there are some women who hire escorts (why would the word gigolo exist if not?), but I personally don't know any and would imagine there are way fewer women than men who do it. If a woman wants to find someone to sleep with, well... chances are she won't need to pay for it.

 

[wallyj84]

I'm sure there are some women who hire escorts (why would the word gigolo exist if not?), but I personally don't know any and would imagine there are way fewer women than men who do it. If a woman wants to find someone to sleep with, well... chances are she won't need to pay for it.

That would be my assumption as well. But, I am a man and don't know how women are truly living.

I have always thought the difference between an escort and a gigolo was that the escort was explicitly providing a service, while a gigolo actually enters a relationship with wealthy women to get access to their money. There is deceit in the gigolo relationship while the escort is being honest. Am I wrong in that?

 

[norwegianintrovert]

That would be my assumption as well. But, I am a man and don't know how women are truly living.

I have always thought the difference between an escort and a gigolo was that the escort was explicitly providing a service, while a gigolo actually enters a relationship with wealthy women to get access to their money. There is deceit in the gigolo relationship while the escort is being honest. Am I wrong in that?

It seems you may be right about that. I wasn't that familiar with the exact meaning of the word, as I almost never hear it.

 

[4388301]

Have thought of/wanted to pay for a professional dominatrix's time in the past. Never did, tho. The one I was intrigued by was no accepting any new clients an I could not justify the kind o rates anyway, not for my budget at the time. No fucking, just BDSM though.

If just wanna get laid, all have to do is post an online ad somewhere and more dick than could shake a stick at will blow my inbox up. Never had interest or need to pay for sex. Never really had problem finding BDSM playmates either, but the particular Mistress was just.. incredibly witty, rather funny, and very beautiful. No my usual type, but beautiful.

Pretty sure escort n gigolo are same thing, but don't know any male sex workers at the moment. An the ones I did know saw male clients. Feel like the women who might pay for sex are like, stuffy, rich old ladies maybe? Fuck I dunno.

 

[LaFemme]

Have thought of/wanted to pay for a professional dominatrix's time in the past. Never did, tho. The one I was intrigued by was no accepting any new clients an I could not justify the kind o rates anyway, not for my budget at the time. No fucking, just BDSM though.

If just wanna get laid, all have to do is post an online ad somewhere and more dick than could shake a stick at will blow my inbox up. Never had interest or need to pay for sex. Never really had problem finding BDSM playmates either, but the particular Mistress was just.. incredibly witty, rather funny, and very beautiful. No my usual type, but beautiful.

Pretty sure escort n gigolo are same thing, but don't know any male sex workers at the moment. An the ones I did know saw male clients. Feel like the women who might pay for sex are like, stuffy, rich old ladies maybe? Fuck I dunno.

I agree. One ad and I’ve got a hookup.

I’ve known a few male “escorts”. They all did men.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I agree. One ad and I’ve got a hookup.

I’ve known a few male “escorts”. They all did men.

This is my friends’ experience, too. 90+ percent male, the occasional service as a stunt cock in a het couple plus one 3 way, and usually more for him.

 

[wallyj84]

This is my friends’ experience, too. 90+ percent male, the occasional service as a stunt cock in a het couple plus one 3 way, and usually more for him.

I agree. One ad and I’ve got a hookup.

I’ve known a few male “escorts”. They all did men.

That is what I had always assumed was the situation, but everyone on my 90 Day Fiancé group has been acting like it is a common thing, so I had to ask.

 

[Sweetlysad]

Never! A while back I thought about it, thinking it might help me with some of my issues left from a bad marriage.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I don't recall a time in my life where I wanted to be with someone *just* for the sake of having physical sex with them. Yeah, I've been just horny and had sex with an established partner for the sake of fucking, but I have to give a fuck on some level about the person to get to the point where we can just fuck for the sake of a fuck.

I'll pay for a badass dildo I can reuse any day before I pay a random person with whom to share my body.

 

[5501331]

I’ve never heard about a woman doing this in real life.

 

[MariaMaria2]

I once created the same thread on SF and received similar replies. As for myself, I have thought of it at one time or another, but can't really imagine going through with it. I prefer to have some sort of connection with the penis-bearer.

 

[SexyFantasyGirl]

I never even thought about it, and can't think of a reason why I would want one