How often do you and your partner have sex?

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  1. Ramsey

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    I'm wondering how often people in relationships-not fuckbuddies or one night stands-have sex. Once a week? Twice a week? 14 times a week?

    Also, mention if you do not live with your significant other.
     
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    I don't live with my SO's and we have sex at different rates. It works out to approximately daily for me, more on holidays.
     
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    Before my wife ran into some problems (in another thread) it was quite literally every night. :cool:
     
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    I don't live with my GF, but almost daily, which is not normal for me. My last GF, about twice a week. Before that...once every few months or so. Honestly I could do with slightly less, there are not enough hours in the day.
     
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    I live with my girlfriend. If we're both in town, at least once or twice per day.
     
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    I don't live with my bf....about once a week to 10 days......I don't think he's got a big sexual appetite for me :(
     
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    I always state that I am the luckiest man alive. My wife goes down on me every single morning to wake me and every single night before bed, most of the time leading to our having sex. In addition we have several "planned" nights per week and usually 3 lunch dates per week, so we are looking at about 18-20 times per week, not counting exclusively oral sessions. We spend almost all of our time together and most of it I have either my dick or my tongue in her in some way.
     
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    My gf does not live with me. We do that by choice to give each other space. But she often travels with me to conferences and meetings around the world and then we shack up together. Typically we have sex daily, sometimes multiple times. However, she dislikes sex during her period. Then I will give her a massage and pedicure to soft music and just love her but without sexual innuendos. We have been together for 5 years now. I adore her.
     
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    Nice! After 5 years of that sounds like you two are doing something right.
     
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    I have sex with my gf about once every couple of days...And by "my gf" i mean: my right hand.

    Side point: I cheated on her recently with my left hand and just feel like the worst kind of bastard :(
     
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    Been together 19 years, married for 15 of those and still having sex about 3 times a week. It would be more, but kids in the house prevent us from having morning sex.
     
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    It varies...and goes in spurts (no pun intended.) Days it will be 3 or 4 times and then I will get shutout a day. I would say on average 15 times a week...I guess not bad for a busy 40's couple.

    Renee
     
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    Somewhere between 8-12 times per week, give or take 1-2...Weve been together for around 5mo's.. Thats including BJ's.. Haha she obsessed with bj's, I guess I got lucky ;)
     
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    A lot of lucky people here!
     
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    we have sex daily unless she is working a long shift (she is a nurse). So, 5x a week is accurate
     
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    This thread is interesting...my husband and I were just wondering yesterday if we were "normal" (whatever that is) or maybe on the fortunate side.

    Renee
     
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    Definitely fortunate side.
     
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    Hmmm...married 30 years. As to frequency: What year is this?
     
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    Once max 2 times a month.
    When we were living apart - 12 years ago - once a 2 times a week.
    Living together is in some way a passion killer.
     
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    Too bad. That nice dick of yours is going to waste. Hopefully you are finding some uses for it. Too good not to use!
     
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