how often do you have sex?

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  1. psidom

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    i mean in a night...how many times before enough is enough?
    by sex i mean oral...not just clit licking i mean tongueing(sp)
    getting in there with a fresh shaven face and clean everywhere.
    combined with penetration.
     
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    I've never had enough :)
     
  3. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I think it's funny how it went from "How often do you have sex?" to... "How many times can you receive oral in a night?" But I digress...

    I don't get tired of it. :smile:
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    I'll get back to you on that after my attempt to have "too much" sex.:tongue:
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    I only get tired of it when I want to be fucked - a bit logistically difficult getting tongue and cock together without a 3rd party.

    Still - there's an obvious solution to that :biggrin:
     
  6. earllogjam

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    I think sex is overrated sometimes. It is like cheesecake. When it is good it is out of this world but when it is just OK...you never want a second piece.
     
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    A lot -- at least twice a day, sometimes 3, 4, 5, or 6 times a day (not always penetrative).

    We're both in and out of the house all the time, so we have more opportunities for morning/daytime encounters than most people. In addition, our Master/slave relationship is such a powerful turn-on for both of us that we have more desire to be sexual with one another than we've had in previous relationships.

    Not all of our sexual enounters end in orgasm, but that's beyond fine with us. Sex is not just about coming.

    I definitely haven't felt like it's too much sex, though. For me, I don't think there is such a thing.:rolleyes: And I don't think I'll ever get enough of sucking AW's cock. I'm addicted.
     
  8. earllogjam

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    Holly, are you the master or the slave? Just being my nosy self. :popworm:
     
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    The slave. :biggrin1:
     
  10. earllogjam

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    Geez that was hawt. I got a little hard reading that Holly. Thanks.
     
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    Virginity ftw...
     
  12. rob_just_rob

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    It varies. Most nights, zero.
     
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    I was married to a Dom for 6 years (widowed). I was submissive, but did not go as far as slave. (not for me :wink: ). The sexual connection in a D/s relationship is different then in a vanilla. It goes deeper then the physical and is no longer about sucking his c*** and more about worshipping him thru the act. The smell, taste, texture of hair.....you can't get enough. In my vanilla relationships, the sex is wonderful, but in a different way. With my husband, there was an intensity, a sexual tension and heightened awareness that always seemed to be there, and because of that, sex, or some sort of foreplay, was always on the menu.

    I'm generally very private about this and keep to my other forum in this other area, but it's nice to know someone on the board has similar experience.
     
  14. psidom

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    at least twice a day, sometimes 3, 4, 5, or 6 times a day (not always penetrative).

    THIS is what i envy most.
    i have sex maybe once a day.

    i am a hornball...i like 2-4 times a day ideally.
    from 7pm to 11pm i want to just go down and even just lightly tease with
    penetration....this NEVER will happen.

    sex once and she is done the second penetration she just winces and it turns me off because it is a dramatic wince...i mean i can see it being "stingy" but she just hates it... and makes me feel like shit.

    i see it kinda like an open wound at first penetration.
    so i am not fucking aggresively til' i can tell she is dilated.
    is only ONCE a day normal?

    i perform oral alot...i love the taste the texture just insanely in love with it.
    i am kinda kinky in that worship sense i guess.
     
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    To be honest, as often as possible. Last month, I caught myself using my Dildo while on my period.
     
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    do you ever make it known to him that you are yearning?
    i mean sometimes you just gotta whip it out i think.
    that is a good way to get his or her attention.

    does he know you post here?
    cuz that could kill his libido if he is sensitive like that.
    do you tell him you like fucking him in particular?
     
  17. psidom

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    I think it's funny how it went from "How often do you have sex?" to... "How many times can you receive oral in a night?" But I digress...

    I don't get tired of it.


    i mention penetration as well.
    i just did not want people to assume i meant strictly penetration
    hence the emphasis on oral.

    so would any of you be satisfied with once a night?
    or would you still be yearning/horny?
     
  18. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Im glad to see someone else thinks like me, even though its sex when its bad its BAD :rolleyes:

    As for the question.
    Im not a fan of oral so i can go without, but when i am in a relationship i like penetrative sex usually at least once a day, and now single i limit myself to mastubating once a day also
     
  19. psidom

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    Originally Posted by earllogjam
    I think sex is overrated sometimes. It is like cheesecake. When it is good it is out of this world but when it is just OK...you never want a second piece.

    maybe that is the case.
    i am just "ok" so i shouldn't expect more.
     
  20. happyfeet

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    Man up! Perfect your technique.

    I never get enough sex. I don't think those two words should even sit that close to each other.

    That said, I haven't had any in months.

    *sigh*
     
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