How often do you like oral?

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Hello I have a question for all the lovely ladies out there.

How often do you like someone giving you oral? Do you enjoy it? Why wouldn't you want it?

The reason I ask is I enjoy eating pussy but I've recently started seeing a woman who won't let me go down on her. All she wants is straight up sex and anal she won't even let me slip a finger in.
 

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How often do you like someone giving you oral?

As often, or more often than the occurrence of penetrative sex.

Do you enjoy it?

Extremely.

Why wouldn't you want it?

If my partner had terrible oral skills that made me uncomfortable; if my genitalia felt overly raw or sensitive; if I felt gross after a lot of physical exertion or a long day of work; if I felt that he or she were performing oral simply out of perceived obligation or in an attempt to make me feel obligated to reciprocate; if I thought that they disliked performing oral.
 

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How often do you like someone giving you oral? Do you enjoy it? Why wouldn't you want it?

I love it, and as often as possible, IF he knows what the heck he's doing and/or if he has a real interest in it and a desire to learn.

Why wouldn't you want it?

I agree with what paigexox said. Generally, if I'm in a pissy mood, which is not often. See, I'm a floor nurse in a hospital, and it's a very physical job. When for three days in a row, I've had a group of whining drug addicts who also need a lot of nursing care, I'm vile by the end of the third day. I don't even want to be around me. But, give me a good 8 to 10 hours of sleep, and I'm back to my usual bubbly and sex-craving self.

All she wants is straight up sex and anal she won't even let me slip a finger in.

That doesn't make a lick [ha] of sense. And, I'm sure you know you're lucky you get anal. But, to address the question, hmmm. How does she get prepped anal? Will she let you put a finger up her tuchis? I really don't get the off limits of the finger in the vagina.

Most of all, however, I am curious, what does this chick say about why she doesn't like you doing oral and fingering her?
 

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Hello I have a question for all the lovely ladies out there.

How often do you like someone giving you oral?
All the time, haven't met a man yet that doesn't like to *smiles*

Do you enjoy it?
I absolutely LOVE it (when its done right)

Why wouldn't you want it?
When it's that time of the month, or if the guy that I'm with just doesn't know what he's doing..too rough, fingernails, etc.
 

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Only time I ever decline is if it's shark week. Other that that, he can do whatever he wants to this pussy, including giving it a good licking.

If I'm not quite as fresh as I'd like to be, I just run to the bathroom and give myself a good scrub... which usually isn't even necessary because I keep to a pretty scheduled 'grooming' routine.
 
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As often as possible is probably the best answer for me :)

Personally I enjoy it but I'm just going to guess your gf is worried about what you will think of her hygiene? I think we all get a little self conscious about our hoohaas sometimes, the smell, the look, the whatever.

Other than just letting her know how you feel, both about her and doing it, and being patient I'm not sure you can do much about it. I could be very wrong about all of this though, she is the only one who could tell you for sure.
 
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I know everyone's different but I honestly get more pleasure out of giving it than receiving it, so, if a guy is really enthusiastic about it I'll let him but it's not my favorite thing on the menu. I'd say that if I was given the option to select how often, like as in a ratio of giving vs receiving I'd say that 10 to 1 would be ideal
 

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I know everyone's different but I honestly get more pleasure out of giving it than receiving it, so, if a guy is really enthusiastic about it I'll let him but it's not my favorite thing on the menu. I'd say that if I was given the option to select how often, like as in a ratio of giving vs receiving I'd say that 10 to 1 would be ideal

Same here..
 

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How often? Hah! Is that a trick question? :p A guy with great oral skills can go down on me whenever he likes... I love-love-LOVE it.

It's probably gross to say this but even when I'm on my period and the guy isn't aversed to it I wouldn't mind... *ish always superhorny during period times :(*
Ah well, I *heart* my showertime then ^_^
 

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There are only two things that would put me off. 1, he isn't into it. 2, he's really bad at it. Otherwise i'd do it all day every day. Tbh if he wasn't into it, that would be a deal breaker for me.
 

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There are only two things that would put me off. 1, he isn't into it. 2, he's really bad at it. Otherwise i'd do it all day every day. Tbh if he wasn't into it, that would be a deal breaker for me.

I even warned my husband once that I don't know what I would have to do if he wasn't good at it. We always take about doing each other's "favorite," and he certainly knows what mine is! His is the same, or I should say its counterpart.
 

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Hello I have a question for all the lovely ladies out there.

How often do you like someone giving you oral? Do you enjoy it? Why wouldn't you want it?

The reason I ask is I enjoy eating pussy but I've recently started seeing a woman who won't let me go down on her. All she wants is straight up sex and anal she won't even let me slip a finger in.

To tell the truth, I like it every night, even if it's nothing more than getting me ready for regular sex. About a week before Christmas my husband and I had just finished our Christmas shopping and were treating ourselves to a bottle of wine and a video Christmas movie in our living room. Before I knew it, my skirt was up around my waist and my husband's head was firmly between my legs:slaphappy:! I don't know how many of you ladies have had multiple orgasms while watching "It's a Wonderful Life" but, believe me, it's fantastic!!!!!:biggrin1:
 

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Unfortunately I have not yet been with a man who was good at it or one of those guys that REALLY like/love it. But I hope to one day. And I am sure it will be any time he wants to.