How often do you use a condom?

[Kentucky_kid]

I gotta tell the truth here guys.. I'v recently dumped my gf, so ever since then about 2 to 3 times a month I go with prostitutes..

Having said that, a condom is allways a MUST

With my ex GF however, after receiving the test results, I did not have to use a condom for about 2 years

 

[Kentucky_kid]

Now that I mentioned it.. are there any other users that frequently have sex with prostitutes ???

I guess it's no use if you've got a GF, but we only live once.. so that the hell

As long as it's safe I'd say :biggrin1:

 

[dreamer20]

How often do you guys use a condom?

Only sailors wear condoms baby.

I guess that's the best way to stop them having a child at every port.:wink:

 

[over13inches]

For obvious reasons, condoms are not possible in our relationship. We are both free of STDs. However, she is on the pill and I expect at some point in the future, we'll want kids so...

My words of advice would be use one though - you never know (a) what STDs your partner (or you for that matter) may be carrying, and (b) do you really know your partner - are they actally on the pill when they say they are?

 

[Small Hound]

never

 

[D_alex8]

that's your life, this is mine.

please, no lecture about STDs. thanks.

Why not? You're the one posting about high-risk activity on a public board. If you were stood on a bridge threatening to jump into the traffic below, wouldn't you want someone to try to talk you down, or at least dissuade others from embracing potentially suicidal activity in the same manner?

And as for "that's your life"... fair enough, but don't come crying here if it proves to be your death too.

That is all.

 

[iio]

Um on Tuesdays, sometimes Thursdays. And always on months ending in 'r's. lol, jk....

To tell you the truth. The very first time I used a condom the condom broke after we were done, I dont mean a little tear but the condom was torn to shreds like an alligator got to it. Luckily this happened w/ my first bf. So I'm sort of grateful for this experience as it shaped how my future actions. I always try to use it. Even w/ a condom, it doesnt mean you are 100% safe. Some tears are so small you cant see it. But to see it mangled into a thousand pieces like a hot porn stud in a horny gay mosh pit is unsettling.

I used to be a peer AIDS/HIV educator ( we went out and taught youth how to be safe, HIV 101, ect) and I remembered the other peers msg was to use a condom always or have a monogomyous relationship (w/o condoms). After my 2nd bf cheated on me not once but twice. I'm like "hell no" condoms w/ you man regarless, cuz you never know. I never thought in my wildest dream that he would cheat on me.

So again. A second msg was sent to me. I would be a fool to not pick up on the warning signs.

 

[DC_DEEP]

NEVER. i havent used a comdom since i was 16 (now i am 24). they want my big dick and I give it to them. i hate condoms...sometimes they ask and I just say I don't have any and they let me keep goin.

Then again, there are some people who are just nasty, and don't give a shit about themselves or anyone else.

 

[jeff black]

All jokes aside.

Condoms are very important.

You wouldn't stick your arm in a food processor when it is on, so why risk your dick??

It's time we all took a step back and got mature about sex. You are all big boys and can make your own choices. However, why not just go out, find a condom that fits, and enjoy your sex?

You know, for people who claim to love their "huge cocks" alot, it seems funny that they wouldn't take every precaution possible.

GET TESTED. Wear condoms, unless you are in a VERY committed relationship, and you think you don't need to wear them (ie for pregnancy)

 

[DC_DEEP]

All jokes aside.

Condoms are very important.

In case you couldn't tell, Jeff, one of the previous posts really struck me the wrong way.

The cavalier attitude towards sexually transmitted diseases just really pushes my buttons. "She asked me to wear one, but I claimed I didn't have any, so we just went at it anyway." "She said she didn't like the way they feel, and she said she's on the pill, and said she's clean, so we didn't use one."

Keep in mind, any potential casual sex partner who urges condomless sex has undoubtedly done the same thing with all their other casual sex partners. If someone says, "I'm clean", you can assume that they may be clean, they may know they have disease(s) but claim otherwise, they may never have been tested. Assuming that you have only picked up "nice" girls or boys at the bar is exceptionally stupid.

The safest thing is to presume that any casual sex partner may have a disease, and protect yourself accordingly.

I have been flamed and villified in other posts when I assert that sexually transmitted diseases could be eliminated in our lifetime, if every single person who has sex would do so responsibly. It won't happen, of course, because too many people assert that it is everyone else's responsibility but their own.

 

[orbit03]

Never! I'm married and got a vasectomy earlier this year so no worry of pregnancy either!

 

[jeff black]

I have been flamed and villified in other posts when I assert that sexually transmitted diseases could be eliminated in our lifetime, if every single person who has sex would do so responsibly. It won't happen, of course, because too many people assert that it is everyone else's responsibility but their own.

I dont' know why they Villinize you, DC. I fully agree with your opinion about condoms. I didn't always but I have recently decided it is the best choice.

 

[DC_DEEP]

I dont' know why they Villinize you, DC. I fully agree with your opinion about condoms. I didn't always but I have recently decided it is the best choice.

I got called lots of nasty names, but not for my views on condom use, but for saying that STDs could be eliminated in our lifetime if people would be responsible when they have sex. That really pissed off more than just a few. I may even search the threads to find those comments...

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

I rarely take mine off.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

I got called lots of nasty names, but not for my views on condom use, but for saying that STDs could be eliminated in our lifetime if people would be responsible when they have sex. That really pissed off more than just a few. I may even search the threads to find those comments...

HPV would still be around unfortunately. As would some types of lice. Hepatitis more than likely. and the AIDs epidemic in Africa goes way beyond improper condom use and even well beyond irresponsible sexual activity. The prevalence of female circumcision, rape, unsanitary medical facilities, improperly cleaned surgical instruments, inadequate tests/information/education, unpotable water, IV drug users, transmission of diseases during labor, all issues that have little to do with responsible sexual practices.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

You wouldn't stick your arm in a food processor when it is on, so why risk your dick??

you mean to say that it's dangerous to put your dick in a food processor while its in operation? Man, all this time and noone told me... I'll have to find some other way to stir my daquiris.

 

[jeff black]

you mean to say that it's dangerous to put your dick in a food processor while its in operation? Man, all this time and noone told me... I'll have to find some other way to stir my daquiris.

Well, considering you could afford to lose a few inches, I can imagine why no one told you

BTW, Daquiris are SUCH a WOMAN's drink.

 

[Eleventh_House]

Not Enough

Cuz "It'll never happen to me"
I'm such an after-school special.

 

[Lonely Girl]

Everytime I sex I use condoms.
except Handjobs:biggrin1:

 

[WildHoney]

We swing ( blech I hate that word) and we have a normal everyday family life outside of that outstanding sex life ..... I love great sex, but not enough to get sick from it.

We have been married for 18 years , three kids and a vascetomy for birth control so safe to say we do not use condoms between the two of us, except if i want to avoid the mess ( ie if we are meeting another cpl that day )

We ALWAYS ( no exceptions ever) use comdoms for vaginal sex, anal sex and blow jobs where he wants me to swallow. ( we are always together during our sexual exploits so its not just an issue of me trusting him to rubber up..I put the damn thing on him ....helpful little fluffer that I am :smile: )

I have on occasion not used them on blow jobs where he is happy cuming on me. I do however have a good look at his cock and would be sensible if i thought it showed any signs of weirdness ( hahah ) - still a risk but low enough for me to be ok with it.

I never use them for oral on me, have never been asked however I would be very ok with a dam on me if he asked for it ....

Honey

( I always give too much detail, skim at will)