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I'm seriously curious as to how often women find themselves in this situation: You meet a guy whom you find extremely attractive. Then you have spectacular, life-changing, soul-satisfying sex with him. But you know from the beginning that he is not going to be your "boyfriend," in the long-term, conventional sense of the word. Basically, he is a "Bad Boy."
Then you meet another guy whom you find reasonably attractive, whom you like, and who does seem like boyfriend or even future-husband material. You have sex with him, and maybe it's OK, more or less, but it's nothing like sex with Bad Boy. Maybe Good Boy is just not as experienced or not as confident. Maybe his penis isn't as big, and that matters a lot to you. Whatever the reason, you enjoy dating Good Boy, but you just know that you're never going to have the same physical response to his penis inside you as you have to Bad Boy's.
So what do you do? Cut things off with Bad Boy? Cut things off with Good Boy? Continue fucking Bad Boy and dating Good Boy, at least until things with Good Boy get more serious?
Then you meet another guy whom you find reasonably attractive, whom you like, and who does seem like boyfriend or even future-husband material. You have sex with him, and maybe it's OK, more or less, but it's nothing like sex with Bad Boy. Maybe Good Boy is just not as experienced or not as confident. Maybe his penis isn't as big, and that matters a lot to you. Whatever the reason, you enjoy dating Good Boy, but you just know that you're never going to have the same physical response to his penis inside you as you have to Bad Boy's.
So what do you do? Cut things off with Bad Boy? Cut things off with Good Boy? Continue fucking Bad Boy and dating Good Boy, at least until things with Good Boy get more serious?