I have a very earnest question here. Overall, I am am an honest person, sometimes revealing too much. Some may say I often reveal too much about myself. I do lie when I have to (white lies as to not hurt others feelings and lies that protect me from harm). Anyone who says they don't lie are just proving that they are a liar. I've posted before that I have psychiatric issues, none of them cause me to be a danger to anyone, other than myself perhaps. Due to this I have a lot of difficulty with relationships as some of my conditions are in the severe condition right now. They tend to ebb and flow, but I've always had problems with relationships. So because of this difficulty I haven't had as many sexual experiences as I should. I'm not a virgin, but have only limited experience. Here's where the moral dilemma comes into play. Most people think I look at least ten years younger than I am. Everyone seems to think I'm a college student. I notice women my own age or even a little younger seem to ignore me. I do notice a lot of college-aged girls seem to show more interest. I get the most looks from young gay males, which is very flattering, but useless to me. I actually wished I was gay for a long time. Well at least bi-sexual, I love women too much. That way I could at least get laid a lot more. Unfortunately, guys just really don't do it for me. Though I can appreciate an attractive man. I've never lied when someone asks me my age, it's not in my nature. I do worry that although I've never received any complaints, I will one day because I would be expected to be a more seasoned sexual partner. If it's going to definitely be a long-term relationship obviously I wouldn't do it. Is it alright for a one-night stand? I have really bad Social Anxiety Disorder (Social Phobia) at times, and that added pressure to be experienced when I'm not, really eats at my confidence. Could I say I'm 22 instead of 32, and if we stay together I could say she mis-heard me quote my age. I feel really bad even considering doing this, but if you knew me and how horrible my luck with women is, it wouldn't sound so crazy to you. I feel like I need to take advantage of any positives I have, and one of those is a youthful appearance. Is it okay to do this just until I feel I'm more experienced, and only if it is a short-term relationship. That way, when I meet my soul mate I can give her what she deserves, since I've built up enough past experiences. I'm really interested in the female response (since they are the objects of my desire), but as always, all responses are encouraged and welcomed. P.S. i've looked online at some sites about pleasing women, but I am more of a hands-on learner, and worry I will do the moves wrong in real life, so I haven't delved too extensively. I have spent a decent amount of time though. However, from the time I learned the techniques, until the next time I have sex (who knows when that will be) I might remember them incorrectly. So sometimes I feel I am wasting my time reading this material. I really don't know what's what anymore. Hoping for some helpful insights.