how open are you with friends about masturbating,watching porn, sexual experiencs,etc

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mt closest friends and i have had a strange mix of being very open about sexuality, but kinda uptight abour nudity.

we've been friends for ten years, and have lived with each other a couple of times, but only ever caught glimpses of each other naked. however, we hang out in our underwear all the time and i've seen the outline of his boner, and vice versa, it feelks like a thousand times.when we chill in our underwear, talk often seems to turn to sexual things and we were always touching ourselves. we've shared a room on numerous occasions, and ive definitely jerked off under the covers and im sure he has to. we've also talked extensively about our porn preferences. recently, both in a horny mood, i showed him an especially hot video i'd found. he held the laptop and rested it on his lap above his dick. the fideo was about fifteen minutes long and has both incredibly turned on. i was pretty shameless about rubbing my cock through my pants. when the video ended, he said he had to go make himself cum and went into the bathroom while i sayed where i was and did the same. we could hear each other climax

he was staying at my apartment at the time, and did so for another month. this was just a few months ago, right before my twenty fifth bitrhday. it turned into one of the horniest months of life, definitely since i was oh sixteen or so. every evening when we hung out, we wuld basically talk extensively about whatever was fueling our fantasies. we told each other what featured most prominently in our spankbanks, once i started talking about the one time i was successfully deep throated, how incredible the sensation was and how much i felt like the the MAN...that night ended up particularly memorably, as my friend described in excriciatingly hot detail the dick sucking skills of every girl he'd ever been with, taking additional time with the two who he remembered as having the tightest pussies to to share some of his fondest fucking memories. for this extravaganza, i got my cock through the waistband of my jeans, so it could rest against my belly and be covered by my t shirt. basically this allowed me to jerk off through my tshirt. when he noticed this, my bud took the hand that had been rubbing his boner through his jeans and slid it down his pants. that night, i came in the bathroom and made quite a mess, which i thought i had taken care of...but my friend followed me in and found a glob of cum on the sink, which absolutely delighted him and became a running joke.

\nudity relaxed. at one point my friend reported that he had acut like mark on his shaft from too much self indulgence, and he lowered his pants to show me while keeping them over his dickhead. unreal turn on.started changing in the same room but the one stripping would turn his back to the other. once i 'accidentally' turned around nude and revealed my floppy semi

ill always kick myself for letting that period go by without some genuine mutual masturbation. honestly i badly wanted to give him head

in september he moved away. during the moneth of october, i went on a trip with my second closest male friend. we had to share rooms a lot. i knew he was watching born on his laptop after the lights went out every night, and i was doing the same, but we never acknowledged this. ung in underwear sparingly had always had a fairly open dialogue but it broke down on this tirp. i definitely did want to hook up with him and im pretty sure the reason he was so uptight was that he wanted to hook up with nme too.

theres a ton of weirdness between us when if we could've just watched porn TOGETHER, compared hard dicks, and stroked off i am almost positive we both would have been turned on and felt closer to bboot

so i'm trying to figure out what the norm is for guys to share about these types of things...horniness in close quarters
 

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I used to hang out with a good friend several years ago when we both worked at the same place. We often went camping together but never talked about anything but women and it always was pretty lame. However, I visited him another time and stayed with him and his girlfriend. We were cooking on the grill outdoors and his gf was visiting someone else. We started talking about sex, the 420 helped when I asked him if he liked to have his dick sucked. He immediately responded in the positive and my cock got rock hard and I added, me too. We went into the house, sat on the sofa and he dropped his pants showing a raging hard on that was as big as I had ever seen and uncut. I started sucking and fondling his cock at which time he asked me to drop my pants exposing myself. We went into 69 and had the best visit of any time enjoying each other's cock several times over the weekend. It has always been our secret and we never talk about it as we live quite a distance apart. I only wish that we had discovered each other sooner as we worked and played together for several years before we got into it with each other. Since then I have always been a little more forward with friends who indicate in anyway what they like and have never been disappointed.
 

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Not open at all. I've only rarely revealed anything, and only rarely has anything been revealed to me, from any of the groups of friends I've had over the years.
 

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Old School me, was instilled there was to be no discussion or anything ha
a frown sufficed, even that needed to be only a oncer

Feel these days a majority would be the exact opposite huh?
Take this site fr eg ..
 

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When I was in college I had a few friends I was like that with. We had no problem talking about sex, being naked around each other and even getting hard when watching porn. We would even wank together. I was also in a frat and lived in the house and most the guys there had no prob watching porn together and joking about their wood and how they had to go beat off. We also had one big bathroom for 9 of us with a 2 headed shower and a few sinks plus 2 toilets. None of these were private so when you came in to piss in the morning everyone saw your morning wood. We'd tease each other about it but we never got pissed because one of us were hard, we were 9 guys in our late teens and early 20's. So I never have had a problem being open with any of my male friends about sex, have been since high school!
 
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mt closest friends and i have had a strange mix of being very open about sexuality, but kinda uptight abour nudity.

we've been friends for ten years, and have lived with each other a couple of times, but only ever caught glimpses of each other naked. however, we hang out in our underwear all the time and i've seen the outline of his boner, and vice versa, it feelks like a thousand times.when we chill in our underwear, talk often seems to turn to sexual things and we were always touching ourselves. we've shared a room on numerous occasions, and ive definitely jerked off under the covers and im sure he has to. we've also talked extensively about our porn preferences. recently, both in a horny mood, i showed him an especially hot video i'd found. he held the laptop and rested it on his lap above his dick. the fideo was about fifteen minutes long and has both incredibly turned on. i was pretty shameless about rubbing my cock through my pants. when the video ended, he said he had to go make himself cum and went into the bathroom while i sayed where i was and did the same. we could hear each other climax

he was staying at my apartment at the time, and did so for another month. this was just a few months ago, right before my twenty fifth bitrhday. it turned into one of the horniest months of life, definitely since i was oh sixteen or so. every evening when we hung out, we wuld basically talk extensively about whatever was fueling our fantasies. we told each other what featured most prominently in our spankbanks, once i started talking about the one time i was successfully deep throated, how incredible the sensation was and how much i felt like the the MAN...that night ended up particularly memorably, as my friend described in excriciatingly hot detail the dick sucking skills of every girl he'd ever been with, taking additional time with the two who he remembered as having the tightest pussies to to share some of his fondest fucking memories. for this extravaganza, i got my cock through the waistband of my jeans, so it could rest against my belly and be covered by my t shirt. basically this allowed me to jerk off through my tshirt. when he noticed this, my bud took the hand that had been rubbing his boner through his jeans and slid it down his pants. that night, i came in the bathroom and made quite a mess, which i thought i had taken care of...but my friend followed me in and found a glob of cum on the sink, which absolutely delighted him and became a running joke.

\nudity relaxed. at one point my friend reported that he had acut like mark on his shaft from too much self indulgence, and he lowered his pants to show me while keeping them over his dickhead. unreal turn on.started changing in the same room but the one stripping would turn his back to the other. once i 'accidentally' turned around nude and revealed my floppy semi

ill always kick myself for letting that period go by without some genuine mutual masturbation. honestly i badly wanted to give him head

in september he moved away. during the moneth of october, i went on a trip with my second closest male friend. we had to share rooms a lot. i knew he was watching born on his laptop after the lights went out every night, and i was doing the same, but we never acknowledged this. ung in underwear sparingly had always had a fairly open dialogue but it broke down on this tirp. i definitely did want to hook up with him and im pretty sure the reason he was so uptight was that he wanted to hook up with nme too.

theres a ton of weirdness between us when if we could've just watched porn TOGETHER, compared hard dicks, and stroked off i am almost positive we both would have been turned on and felt closer to bboot

so i'm trying to figure out what the norm is for guys to share about these types of things...horniness in close quarters

It's just young guys being guys. Talking about sex, boners, seeing each other naked, it just happens. Sometimes more can happen too, although it is sometimes hard to read the signals.

There is no norm. I have a close friend that I basically spent my young adulthood with (we were over the age of 18). We did many of the same things you brought up... talking about sex, hanging out in our underwear, pissing in front of each other and not making a secret of the fact one of us had a hard on. I thought nothing of it. Guys being guys when they are in a private situation. This went on for 19 years.

Then one night, at the age of 37, while drinking, we were discussing how long we had been friends and he kissed me... full on the mouth with tongue. I had, over the years noticed comments that he made about the size of my cock and so on. I had made similar comments to him. I just thought of it as normal guy stuff.

The point being is you never know what is going through the other persons mind. The signals are never clear when a person is struggling with something that is unfortunately viewed as taboo.
 

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I've found that a lot of guys will jack off together if they don't think you're gay. Meaning, if you have a girlfriend and/or seemingly lead a straight life, if the situation arises where there's porn or strippers or such, a lot of them will be down to do a little something if they're all horned up. What that "something" is depends on them and where their head's at when it comes to guys messing around.

One thing I have found with some guys is that they don't care to discuss what's happened if they're not too comfortable with that side of their sexuality. I once jacked off with a roommate in college. He woke up and saw me and joined in by grinding his mattress and looking at my cock. He even did dirty talk while we were doing it. When I brought it up later he claimed he didn't know what I was talking about. Perhaps he had multiple personalities and I just happened to hook up with the horny one. Lol.

I think a lot of guys might be down to mess around but a lot of times we kinda wait on each other to make the 1st move before we say anything or do anything. It's a catch 22 especially cause you don't want to screw up a good friendship by coming off as, excuse the expression, "too gay".
 

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Depends on the friend.

With some very close friends, we can (and do) converse about anything sexual, without blinking.

Most though, nah. I'd rather keep that private and I'm certain the feeling's mutual with them.

I'm with Remington on this one, it ENTIRELY depends on the individual. Like any other "taboo" subject, with most of my friends it never comes up (pun intended). But I have some friends, from wide-eyed liberals to extreme conservatives, with whom I can enjoy a meaningful discussion of politics. Ditto for religion. And, over the years I've had a number of guy friends with whom I could openly discuss sexual matters, share nudity and watch porn together. Most of those have been totally "straight" guys who I have never even seen with erections, but a few have progressed to one level or another of sexual interaction between the two of us. It's all good, friends are friends, but it would be a lot easier without all the hangups that hinder most folks.
 

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I once jacked off with a roommate in college. He woke up and saw me and joined in by grinding his mattress and looking at my cock. He even did dirty talk while we were doing it. When I brought it up later he claimed he didn't know what I was talking about. Perhaps he had multiple personalities and I just happened to hook up with the horny one. Lol.

I think this is a hilarious story! I think there's a lot of guys out there with split personalities, and that's why they're willing to have gay sex with you but not meet up in a public place first because "my friends might happen to see me."

They're afraid they'll see a shadow side of themselves.
 

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my friends and i are VERY open about talking about sex, though we don't like get naked and masturbate together or anything.... my friends would be rather worried if i didn't talk about sex.... i might not have the most hardcore sex around, but i take the crown for being the biggest pervert....

:)
 

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Depending on my friends I'm pretty damn open. The ones I consider my best and closest friends, we're all pretty darn open about everything, whether it's sex, jacking off, etc. While we never jacked off with each other, some of us have seen each other naked through pictures or videos.