How private is your sex life?

[D_Tim McGnaw]

I don't deliberately keep my sex life private, and I don't delibarately make it public either. I talk about my sex life when I feel comfortable enough to do so, I'll brag occassionally if I got up to something particularly hot, but only with people I know would be interested. I certainly don't make my sex life my raison d'etre though, I'm not one of those tedious "sexual crusader" types who have little or nothing much else to talk about, and think that being sexually "transgressive" is really fascinating, even though their sex lives sound pretty boring in fact.

 

[D_Jerry_Atric]

What sex life? WTF is sex?

 

[D_Sheila Bootieshaker]

Here we pretty much put our sex life out there. But outside of here how private is your sex life?

Very private, thats not for our friends to know, the skills Im working with or the skills my hubby is working with. Thats asking for problems, people knowing your sex life will start to wonder and eventually will try to make the move and want to find out for themselves...

 

[kc_showman]

It's so private I don't even know about it!

 

[Rikter8]

It's so private I don't even know about it!

DAMNIT you beat me to it!

 

[airc3]

All my friends know I'm a virgin. We really don't talk about it. Every now and then, someone will ask if I've "found anyone" yet. In fact, one of my friends had a new gf for like 6 months and never even told me because he didn't want me to "feel bad." ???

 

[ManofThunder]

I would say that my sex life is private from family members and those close to me but certainly very public on this site haha.

 

[jennizeus]

its as private as i want it to be, if i feel like i want to openly discuss things with people/friends then ill do that, but i don't go blabbing to everyone and i live in a small town also but no one that i dont want knowing details knows any intimacy details of mine

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

I would say that my sex life is private from family members and those close to me but certainly very public on this site haha.

Looking forward to reading all of the naughty details!


I'm generally open, but, on this site, have scaled back the information I share in the public forum. My viewpoint now is more of a those who know, know thing and even though my sex life is fanflippingtabulous :biggrin1:, I leave it at that.

 

[ManofThunder]

Looking forward to reading all of the naughty details!


I'm generally open, but, on this site, have scaled back the information I share in the public forum. My viewpoint now is more of a those who know, know thing and even though my sex life is fanflippingtabulous :biggrin1:, I leave it at that.

When can I look forward to reading all of YOUR naughty details?

 

[catman]

Well I have the 'excuse' that I am a widower. My sex life is my business. Am I sexually active? I can be when the mood hits but I separate work and play life.

 

[ArtofDesire]

In my opinion sex is a private matter between consenting adults. I do not share my experiences with family, friends or coworkers - ever.

I have shared some stories anonymously on this site, but I would never post anything that would personally identify my partner.

 

[DasLeezard]

I haven't had it in so long, I forgot what it looks like.

 

[Catchoftheday]

It's extemely private, even I don't know anything about it :redface:

 

[curiouscam]

My sex life outside of LPSG is very private and mostly not by choice. My partner and I are in an open relationship and yet for some reason he prefers to keep that fact as private as possible. So no one aside from a small number of friends know it is open. I don't mind sharing information with other (if asked of course) Although I would never go out of my way to talk about my sex life in public if no one had asked about it.

 

[D_Edwin Eatser]

My brother, my wife's 2 adult sons and a couple of my wife's non-swinging female friends know we swing, but we wouldn't discuss the details with any of them. I told my brother, and the others found out by chance over the years. We're not ashamed!

 

[heavycummerwanted1]

Ours is very private which doesn't help our fantasy quest even a little bit lol me and the wife decided to fool around and the catch is we need a well hung guy for the wife's fantasy and he has to cum a lot for my fantasy it's the porn facial thing I'm after.

 

[rbkwp]

flying solo currently
hence very private
would not have it any other way
Had heaps of good times shared
enuf lpsg several months of the year'
to quell most urges, hah
enz

 

[petite]

Here we pretty much put our sex life out there. But outside of here how private is your sex life?

For me the rule has always been to follow the lead of whomever I'm talking to so that I don't make them uncomfortable. With my family, it would never come up, so I don't do it. Friends vary widely in how much they'll disclose! As I've grown older, fewer and fewer females friends discussed sex, so it became a rarer and rarer topic, so much so that I would be surprised if certain friends brought it up.

I always maintain certain rules of discretion and tact regarding what happens in bed. That's a given.

It's supposed to be secret?!? My whole family knows when I get sex. It's too exciting, I can't keep it to myself.

Really? I can't imagine that!

My sex life is pretty public. It's a small town so word travels fast about anything...or in my case the fact that I'm a virgin. I've run into people I didn't really know that nonetheless were aware of my virgin status.

That's your own fault! You have got to stop talking about it so much.

For all her faults, this abolition of sex-shaming was one of the very few net-positive contributions she made to my post-childhood development.

Interesting comment as usual, Bbucko. This part about your mother is interesting. My parents would never bring up sex, so I grew up in the exact opposite kind of environment. Actually, my mother would bring up sex, but only to discourage it.

 

[Magnus_Phallus]

For me the rule has always been to follow the lead of whomever I'm talking to so that I don't make them uncomfortable.

Can't say I've made it into an actual rule but
I pretty much behave like that by default too.

With my family, it would never come up, so I don't do it.

Same here.

Odd thing, among my friends, there is much more speculation and
conjecture about my sex life than actual facts I may have revealed.

Go figure :scratchchin: