How private is your sex life?

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No one's business other than the parties involved. My sex life is very private and I like it like that. Something special and sacred about keeping it low key and secret.
 

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Top secret. Most of my friends think I may be a virgin. I honestly keep it under wraps. Even though I'm a young guy, I dont feel the urge to brag about everything time I have sex. Honestly I've only told two people I'm not a virgin. One guy only knows that I've had sex, my best friend knows maybe half of my sex life.
 

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If anyone wants to know about my sexual history I'm happy to speak about it without giving exact details. Other than that I don't feel it's necessary to really be totally open with anyone unless I'm in a serious relationship.

Right now my roommate and I fool around all the time. He and I have people over to tape us but it's not something we shout from the roof tops.
 

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My sex life is noooo secret. That's because I don't have one. Boohoo. I'm pretty open with my thoughts and ideas about sexual things so I'm the one people usually confide their secrets to or I'm asked for my advice. Strange isn't it? Lol
 

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Sex is supposed to be somewhat private. It's pretty much nobody's business but that of husband and wife. However, there's no real need for it to be "top secret." Obviously, sounds of sex sometimes come through the "thin apartment walls" of the big city. Or even through open summertime windows at night, as somebody remarked on some forum. With now some 7 billion people on the planet, it's hardly any "secret" that huge numbers of people are enjoying naturally procreating.
 

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But how much privacy is possible when u live with roomates or family? Isnt it fairly common to know who is getting laid or wanking and how much theyre getting into it?

I think it must be pretty standard, hearing moaning and orgasm, the squeaky bed, bodies banging, sex talk or even porn. Its also probly common feeling the walls and maybe ur Own bed shaking even in another room if one of two people are indulging. I think if ur aroused enough, u'll not hold back at all.

Is this a cause for next morning embarassment, pride (and/or) humorous discussions - or even 'accidental' door openings on sex or jo. Im thinking u must lead a pretty sheltered life if uve magically achieved 'privacy' in ur house or apartment.

As for sharing details on sex - im not sure it should be such a huge deal.
 

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Sex is supposed to be somewhat private. It's pretty much nobody's business but that of husband and wife. However, there's no real need for it to be "top secret." Obviously, sounds of sex sometimes come through the "thin apartment walls" of the big city. Or even through open summertime windows at night, as somebody remarked on some forum. With now some 7 billion people on the planet, it's hardly any "secret" that huge numbers of people are enjoying naturally procreating.

"husband and wife"? wow, no sex outside of marriage? or str8 marriage? no wanking?