How Ruff?

scanjock8 said:
rough or tender, doesn't matter to me, both can be hot--what gets me off is being in synch with the other person.

that said, if i'm getting my dick sucked and assume the 'in control' role, i like to tease and finesse--rough on its own just doesn't do much for me. same holds true when the guy sucking my dick is running the show. i've had some guys just go full throttle on my cock at the get-go, slurping and deep throating like a madman without coming up for air, which gets old fast. i appreciate variety and build-up.

oddly, when i'm the one sucking dick i like a rough facefucking from a guy in charge. go figure.

damn, your hot bro, id love to force you down on me
 
For me its not being rough, its getting treated rough. I am always telling my girl, "you're not going to break it! Treat it like you hate it. Hate that dick!" She's still scared though. I used to like laying down so I could feel her warmth straddling my leg, but recently I started having her get on her knees. I am a complete gentleman, so I feel weird saying that its because I like "looking down" at her. Its like shes begging me for something.

I don't know. I am normally very rough with every sexual aspect (to extremes we won't get into) Sometimes I think it freaks her out. What is funny, is that she can get mildly violent when she's mad. All it does is turn me on, which makes her more mad. We're fucking crazy, and I am more beguiled by her with each passing day.
 
I have a HUGE problem meeting guys who are willing to be rough with me. The problem is I think is that Im quite an outgoing and confident guy, and people Im with find it very difficult to think of me in a sexually submissive way.

Ive hooked up with guys from the net who say they're real dominant and agressive, especially in terms of me sucking their cocks, but when we meet they just lay back and are as quiet as a door mouse.

You see I like to get some verbal feedback/instruction, or even dominant/agressive orders, but if I ask them if there is any technique they'd like me to do they just say Im already doing a good job.

Id love to get with a guy who enjoys bossing his cocksucker around and is comfortable enough to show who is boss ;)
 
The thing is, when my goodies are between their teeth, somehow the thought of them closing said teeth becomes a picture in my minds eye that over-rides the "Face-fucking" ideas in the back of my head, and who wants a lap full of puke anyhow????
 
Some guys get a lot of pleasure out of making their cocksuckers choke, and even making them throw up.

As a cocksucker I don't like it at all. Its not very dignified lol. And I always think the guy can't like like it.

BUT saying that if the guy DOES like it then Im ok with it.
 
As a dedicated COCKWORSHIPER I like being on my knees in front of a stud and slowly work on his big cock sucking and taking more and more of himin my mouth untill I have him in my throat. Then if I have to I take his hands and put them on my head. T hey usuallyget the idea of what I want and start fucking my mouth and shoving their cock down my throat. I LOVE IT! As they get hotter and harderand BIGGER start FUCKING MY THROAT, most are surprized I can take it as hard as they want!Then as they approach orgasm,I grab their ass and pull them ALL THE WAY down my throat and I and they luv it when they start to cum to shoot that hot load of cum right down my gullet! luv to feel the pulseing as they shoot!
 
I have a HUGE problem meeting guys who are willing to be rough with me. The problem is I think is that Im quite an outgoing and confident guy, and people Im with find it very difficult to think of me in a sexually submissive way.

Ive hooked up with guys from the net who say they're real dominant and agressive, especially in terms of me sucking their cocks, but when we meet they just lay back and are as quiet as a door mouse.

You see I like to get some verbal feedback/instruction, or even dominant/agressive orders, but if I ask them if there is any technique they'd like me to do they just say Im already doing a good job.

Id love to get with a guy who enjoys bossing his cocksucker around and is comfortable enough to show who is boss ;)

The best way to communicate "special" needs and requests is via on-line hook-up sites, in my experience. Cherry-picking in a crowded bar can get tired really quickly.
 
I just wish I could find a guy who would take it all... apart from one guy once, who was obviously a talented cocksucker, the most I get is the head and a little bit of the head inside... maybe it's true, maybe British men are just crap at giving head!
 
marc_themanuk if you're complaining about guys not taking your whole length, shouldn't you be saying men are just crap at giving deepthroat, rather than crap at giving head?
 
Yeah - you're probably right... it's just that getting deepthroat is part of getting really great head... the few times when I guy has taken me all the way down in his throat and really gone mad over my cock - forcing himself to swallow me and take me all is so much sexier that someone just tasting the cockhead.... if you know what I mean?