I mean, when you meet someone for the first time - a random hook up or even a date. How safe are you? Do you swallow? Bareback him? Be barebacked? I'm curious because I met a guy and he sucks me completely off (and swallows) and he expects the same in return but I don't. I never did unless I was with someone longer term. I'm curious what other guys are doing. What are your limits?