Hello!
I've been talking to this guy recently and we may start dating. This will lead to some sexytime and he's a bit older and more experienced me regarding that. Now, I don't have any dating questions BUT I want to know when and how I should ask if he is STD free. While we will use safe sex (or he ain't tapping this), I would like to know regardless of what measures we take. I don't want to risk catching HIV or herpes or hepatitis or whatever disease he may be carting around. I have no reason to think he has anything but I am paranoid.
How do I ask him this? It's not exactly a sexy question, nor is it really a polite thing to ask about. I agree that I need to ask before anything happens and that if I plan on doing the no pants dance I should have the ability to at least ask. However, I want to do it with grace and tact.
Help me!
I've been talking to this guy recently and we may start dating. This will lead to some sexytime and he's a bit older and more experienced me regarding that. Now, I don't have any dating questions BUT I want to know when and how I should ask if he is STD free. While we will use safe sex (or he ain't tapping this), I would like to know regardless of what measures we take. I don't want to risk catching HIV or herpes or hepatitis or whatever disease he may be carting around. I have no reason to think he has anything but I am paranoid.
How do I ask him this? It's not exactly a sexy question, nor is it really a polite thing to ask about. I agree that I need to ask before anything happens and that if I plan on doing the no pants dance I should have the ability to at least ask. However, I want to do it with grace and tact.
Help me!