HOw tactile are you? Women and gay men this is for you but posted here

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

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    I lift weights and work out hard and try to stay muscly. When I was 20 I was really ripped and i was out at the apt. pool one day when this older woman (maybe 25 LOL) with the tightest hottest body started staring at me. Later she came to my door in the skimpiest of outfits to borrow an egg for dinner. One thing led to another and we were fucking about 15 minutes into her *egg borrowing* ruse.

    Here's the thing. She just craved touching my body with her hands, exploring it tactilely, fingering every so called masculine curve. I have found that she is more the exception, that I have not run into that many women who simply lust to touch the male bod. I mean really touch and explore. I love to touch and trace out the curves of a woman and I guess most men do, but women, in my experience are not as tactile. That just my experience. I assume gay men are more tactile but I do not know. Women are you tactile? Even in hetero porn I rarely see the starlet's hands roaming around the male bod, and of course its just fake porn, but I find that hot, to see a female wanting to touch a man and explore.
     
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    I personally am Extremly tactile. But I think i tend to be an exception. I love the feel and warmth of another body. So getting to touch someone, male or female in all ways is extremly pleasing to me. It doesnt even have to be sexual. I tend to be cuddler so, it is the contact and the touch that makes it all for me. Now, a muscular man, there for me to touch. Hell yeah. I would not turn that down at all.
     
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    A thoughtful question, indeed. Now that I think about it, I suppose I'm not very tactile....it's kinda difficult to touch someone when he's got me bent over from behind :evil:
     
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    I find the male figure beautiful and can't imagine having sex without exploration whether with my hands or my lips.
     
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    Agree 100%
     
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    i have found some woman to be more into exploring my fit body than others. it all depends on the woman.
     
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    I find that it's not really sex to me unless I can explore every inch of the body. My hands need to be everywhere, or I just don't feel right. Tight thighs, base of the neck, nipples, breasts/pecs, genitals, even running my finger on their lips is a huge turn on for me.
     
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    I second that.
     
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    Great question. People apparently have one sense they prefer over the others, maybe because it is stronger or better developed. Maybe yours is touch. But now that you mention it, I can think of a number of gay guys I've known who were clumsy with their hands. Couldn't give back rubs, hand-jobs very well at all, and just did not connect well when they touched. I thought it was just a lack of chemistry, not getting into it, but maybe some people just communicate through touch better than through sight, sound, or smell. I've got a friend whose sense of smell is extremely well developed (taste too--he loves food), and think that for him, it's the physical smell in being close that gets him hot.

    I've always thought that the lesbians I know are quite a bit like those in porn--all kinds of touching, caressing etc., and always figured most women were like that. But you make me realize a number of women friends I know really enjoy getting touched (if I give them a backrub or caress them in any way, or am tactile), but they are lousy in doing it in return.

    Interesting question.
     
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    Maybe it has to do with Learning Styles vs. Multiple Intelligences? :confused: I am a visual/spatial as well as tactile learner. When I am with a man I don't just enjoy looking at him. I need to touch him, caress, and feel every inch of his body. Then again maybe that's just me. :rolleyes::wink:
     
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    That really surprises. I think a fit even chiseled male body might be one of the most amazing works of art on the earth and if I were gay, and doing another guy, I would want to feel every ripped nook and cranny. Even a nicely proportioned man would be explored completely. (Yes I know I am leaving out less well developed folks but that is just my personal preference).

    Honest to pete, I have known only a few women that really let their hands roam unabashedly over me. That is only my experience, others may have more adventurous partners. That incredibly uninhibited gal at the pool set me up for a partial lifetime of dissappointment. LOL.
     
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    GREAT answer Merc. I'm exactly the same. I'm huge on exploring. Really big on touching areas that are normally forgotten or overlooked. To me that is a huge part of arousal and enjoying the experience thoroughly.
     
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    I love touching every inch, even after the sex I am very touchy with people I am intimate with. Strangely, I am not touchy with others though.
     
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    Very. Touching and exploring is good!!
     
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