How thick can a penis be before the woman's pleasure turns into pain?

For me, the most pleasurable penis circumference is about...


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NotSoDumb_Blonde

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7" is well over the limit most women start to mention discomfort.

the main problems with the OP's poll are

1. so far straight men are the only folks voting :tongue1:

2. being on LPSG *intorwebz inches* has put the poll numbers all wonky.


seriously, dudes, is a vagina.. not an squishy path to Narnia.

omg, I seriously have a girl crush on you Mickey! Narnia!!! I'm so there and never coming back. Seriously, why did those kids re-enter this place? :rolleyes:

I agree with everything the ladies have said so far. If you're worried over your size, simply keep yourself in tune with the lady you're with -- she's going to say right away when it's not okay!

I've also never measured someone. I mean, how do you do that?

me: "So, can I measure your cock?"
bf: "Huh?" Pulls covers up over hips and gives me the 'are you nuts' look....

:eek: Just not my thing.
 

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7" is well over the limit most women start to mention discomfort.

the main problems with the OP's poll are

1. so far straight men are the only folks voting :tongue1:

2. being on LPSG *intorwebz inches* has put the poll numbers all wonky.


seriously, dudes, is a vagina.. not an squishy path to Narnia.

Also, the problem with this poll is I answered the Thread Topic question and not the poll question.

I'm blonde. :)
 

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I agree, my poll is indeed too blunt. Concerning the woman's comfort during sex, there are myriad variables other than the guy's specific girth. And it's not as though many women actually measure their boyfriend's dicks.

What I really want to discuss is the variables that I (dumbly) neglected in the poll. When the guy has a thick penis ("thick" having a different definition for each woman), what techniques/positions/circumstances/etc. can minimize the woman's discomfort?
 

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I don't know about how the feeling is for a woman, but I do know I've been rejected for it being too much, especially near the bottom 2ish inches when I flare from 6.5 around to 7 around.
 

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I've got some girth, and I have had a couple of women who expressed discomfort with it. But early on I realized that a) sex is supposed to be fun and pleasurable and b) if I took the time in the beginning to make sure she was enjoying herself and was properly excited then chances were better that she would have less trouble accomodating me and would likely be more enthusiastic to try.

With larger girth you can't just shove it in and go to town. If the woman is having difficulty, slow things down. It's more fun that way anyway.
 

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of course,this will vary from woman to woman. I had one gf that took several sessions in a week, justs to get full inserted, and then she had me pull out. she thought she was gonna split. after about a month, as long as we were slow at the beginning, she enjoyed it.
my wife, then my gf, never complained once until one mornning I wanted her again, and she said she needed a break. "you are, afterall, a very big man.", she said.
 

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Also, the problem with this poll is I answered the Thread Topic question and not the poll question.

I'm blonde. :)

Don't feel so dumb, I didn't notice it until you pointed it out.

Not that I answered it, mind you, just chuckling at the fact that most of the responders are male (all?)

Someone should start a thread entitled, "This one time..."
 

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I never had any problems with girth and I have had sex with lots of guys that are really thick (and I should know considering my sample size :) ). Also, I have been fisted and I have had some really big dildos in me and had no problems so I doubt really that there is a man with a dick out there that is so thick the average woman would have a problem with it. I think length is more of an issue since if it is too long it bangs against the cervix and this can hurt.
 

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I never had any problems with girth and I have had sex with lots of guys that are really thick (and I should know considering my sample size :) ). Also, I have been fisted and I have had some really big dildos in me and had no problems so I doubt really that there is a man with a dick out there that is so thick the average woman would have a problem with it. I think length is more of an issue since if it is too long it bangs against the cervix and this can hurt.

maybe we should play
 

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I never had any problems with girth and I have had sex with lots of guys that are really thick (and I should know considering my sample size :) ). Also, I have been fisted and I have had some really big dildos in me and had no problems so I doubt really that there is a man with a dick out there that is so thick the average woman would have a problem with it. I think length is more of an issue since if it is too long it bangs against the cervix and this can hurt.


individual results/mileage my vary. :smile:
consult directions specific to your model for proper use and maintenance.
 

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I refuse to answer any questions from a guy who measures down to the 1/16th of an inch. No answer is going to be good enough. Like the pussy is exact science that can be solved with a calculator and a tape measure? Meh

Wow, so now you're seeking out old threads to insult me for no reason. Okey dokey.

And, by the way, sex is science. A calculator and a tape measure won't be enough to improve our understanding of it, but they'll certainly help.
 

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Uhmmmm yeah. You keep telling yourself that and we will keep telling you that you are not going to solve the problems you think you have by using these ideas to measure areas that don't even matter because we don't often select people on genitalia matching alone.