How to approach a couple at a nudist beach to respectfully ask them for a threesome?

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I was recently at a nudist beach and there was a couple next to me and it was only the three of us at the beach. They didn’t have a problem engaging into mild sexual acts in front of me (the guy had a boner, the girl was touching his dick etc) but that doesn’t mean they would want me to join them. What would be a nice way to try to insert myself in this situation and ask them to join them? Has anyone had luck asking a couple to join them in bed?
 

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I was recently at a nudist beach and there was a couple next to me and it was only the three of us at the beach. They didn’t have a problem engaging into mild sexual acts in front of me (the guy had a boner, the girl was touching his dick etc) but that doesn’t mean they would want me to join them. What would be a nice way to try to insert myself in this situation and ask them to join them? Has anyone had luck asking a couple to join them in bed?
I was in a similar situation but they said “ hey do you want to join us” a maybe the couple you were next to just wanted to show off .
 
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Don't, that's weird
lol- that could be their response. but humor is purposely weird because it raises difficult topics without being offensive or threatening- that is why it works. but what is really weird is to be having, unasked, sex in front of people at a public beach..nudists get generally upset when that occurs- don't they. its weird as one said above, start masturbating. its weird to watch. its actually weird to join in (risk of disease and what not). some people will be freaked out, others disarmed by your humour, others were waiting for a third and thats why they are on the beach having sex in stead of in their home. I can't believe on this site in particular someone would try to shame someone as weird and raise the "social mores" flag in a generally awkward situation. I particularly love when people try to set "new rules of society" that define people by "how much they know about the rules"- swingers and cuckold life come to mind- just watching cults evolve is all it. the cool people know the rules, those on outside don't. cults have their own language and rules. but the whole point of this is throwing off the false bounds of society to be able to express yourself. ...Throwing out a one line joke in that scenario? seriously? not weird- she would have giggled and and he would possibly been invited in.
 

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I was recently at a nudist beach and there was a couple next to me and it was only the three of us at the beach. They didn’t have a problem engaging into mild sexual acts in front of me (the guy had a boner, the girl was touching his dick etc) but that doesn’t mean they would want me to join them. What would be a nice way to try to insert myself in this situation and ask them to join them? Has anyone had luck asking a couple to join them in bed?
As a single male, if you approached me and my partner asking for sex, you'll have zero chance.

But if you came with a female partner, then your chances of getting laid would increase astronomically.
 
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You're the only other person on the beach and, apparently, very close by.

I would suggest that they were getting it on fully expecting you to join them. Probably disappointed that you didn't take the bait.
 

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I was recently at a nudist beach and there was a couple next to me and it was only the three of us at the beach. They didn’t have a problem engaging into mild sexual acts in front of me (the guy had a boner, the girl was touching his dick etc) but that doesn’t mean they would want me to join them. What would be a nice way to try to insert myself in this situation and ask them to join them?
As others have said, you don't know if they were being slightly exhibitionist, or were sending a signal. Even if they took it beyond the dick stroking and went to oral sex and beyond, you still don't know if they were just showing off or wanted more.

Has anyone had luck asking a couple to join them in bed?
If, and only if, they gave you some kind of signal (or outright invited you) to join them would it be appropriate to join them.
 

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You're the only other person on the beach and, apparently, very close by.

I would suggest that they were getting it on fully expecting you to join them. Probably disappointed that you didn't take the bait.
People are saying "if they send a signal"- one could interpret having sex on a public nude beach (where sexual activity is frowned upon) is a signal. its not like you peeking in their bedroom. What makes me laugh, is how everyone tries to "set rules", even the crowd pretending to be rule breakers. be respectful is all I'd add. BTW I would not try to join in, my mind goes to -anyone willing to take a rando off the street likely carrying a few extra friends with that you would inherit.(among other things)..
 
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