Ok, so last night threw me for a loop. I think I'm bisexual not that it matters, but I've been down a lot lately and last night my mom called me and basically had the nerve to tell me I WAS gay, and that there's no such thing as a bisexual. Then she called me out about when I was going to the doctors for pain and she says it's because I was having gay sex. WTF? Then she tells me not to act gay when I'm back home, which makes me laugh because I'm usually one to hate very effeminate gestures, plus I don't really have any intentions of returning home. So long story short my mom now thinks I'm gay to which I say I don't even know myself really, I still have major feelings for an ex member of the site and I don't think that's going anywhere, besides, after this time I'd rather just be friends with them. I'd like to end up with a family of my own someday but last night my mom kept trying to say "yeah only if you adopt..." The thing is I really am only fooling around, I'd eventually love to end up with a wife and kids. I just don't know how to approach girls. Usually with guys its discreet and the same type as me, over the internet. I'm a shy guy, and it goes off and on, sometimes I'm not shy at all. So my question is how can I start approaching girls to ask them out? Most of them seem to have boyfriends and it throws me off right away. I'm really not a pick up line kinda guy, so any other advice would help.