How to ask a buddy to show you his dick and/or jackoff

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I have this buddy that is a really good friend. Very nice looking guy and can tell that he has a nice dick. Would like to see that dick of his, and/or maybe jo. Not sure how to approach the situation. I will be visiting him this week for a few days. Need some suggestions on how to approach him in a suttle manner. I will have my own room while there.
 
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I would probably play on his insecurities. Bring up dating and then you could make something up about the last person you hooked up with refused to hook up again because s/he said you were too big and it hurt. "Has that ever happened to you" or "I don't know if you can relate to that but it sucks." If he becomes curious or his competitive side gets activated, you have a reasonable shot at getting to see his goods. If he shuts down the conversation immediately, just leave it alone because your friend is not interested.

I think many guys who aren't total prudes can be convinced to compare, but a mutual j/o is unlikely unless it was already on his mind to some degree.
 

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I would probably get a few beers for a lads night in and after they kick in a bit mention some hot porn u have found and without asking slap the dvd in the player and see where it goes,,
 
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Oh he's gay, too? That would have been important information to include lol. Then no need to be tricky like I suggested above. If it were one of my friends, I'd probably just ask them if they wanted to hook up or have a few drinks and go from there, but my friends and I are all pretty open.
 

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The cat is out of the bag...

Yep, and my suggestions have now changed from *How to do it* to "Don't Do It"

*edit* Figured I'd explain myself more...

I always want to see more and different cocks. Difference is, my partner knows it, and has been, and would be aware of any time that I might have an experience. So far it's only been friends that we have had here at our place, but point is, I wouldn't and don't hide it from him.

You're just asking for problems in the future, because it ALWAYS comes out at some point.

So have fun when you get the chance, but only with your partners knowledge and approval :fing02:
 
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Collectively, you've been given sufficient good advice already, in my opinion. I would only reinforce what's been said: Since he's gay, just haul off and ask him (perhaps after setting up a conducive situation). But do not even think about keeping it from your partner if you value your relationship--repeat, do not. This might be a good time to broach with him (your partner) the subject of an open relationship. My longtime partner and I have always been free to satisfy our individual "curiosities" whenever we wanted--but always openly, never secretly. Thus it's never been a problem for us.
 
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