how to ask guy to jack off w/you?

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    how do i ask a guy to join me to jack off? at a gym or sauna?? we each do our own thing but just in the same room. is it fun....:confused:
     
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    I just had my first jerk off buddy about 2 weeks ago. It was hot. I sat in my chair; he sat in his. I didn't ask for anything. I just made a 'public service announcement' that I was about to get naked and enjoy my nakedness and he just followed suit.

    All I did was whip it out:tongue:. Now, I'm not telling you to do that. I'm just saying that's what I did:redface:

    If you try something else and it works, share the knowlege. I'll put it in my arsenal:cool:
     
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    cool, but where did you find this guy? was he already ur friend? was it awkward afterwords?
     
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    I would suspect that if you wanted to jack off in the presence of another male that the most natural thing to do is to simply start working your penis so he can see you and more than likely he will also start jacking his own.

    I recall these opportunities from my youth and it is indeed a real bonding experience.

    Go for it.
     
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    He was already a friend of mine, for several years. It wasn't weird at all because I went into my nakedness with confidence. I was so tired from a long day and I had to jerk off, but he wanted to hang out so bad. He just ended up in the right place at the right time I guess.

    There wasn't a gay element to it even though he was well aware of my greedy orientation. It was a very relaxed environment because we were friends. I tell my friends everything about me anyway. That's how I've gotten the BEST FUCKIN' FRIENDS EVER. I don't lie to them. I tell them all of my nasty secrets, and vice versa. It was cool.
     
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    okay but where should i go to find a jack off buddy?
     
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    this site or gyms or get a friend and have him over for some beers and porn
     
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    if im at the sauna or steam room at the gym how should i hint that i want to jack off?? n when i when i jack off with a friend should ask if he wants oral??
     
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    Now, I don't have an answer for this. I talk about sex with a lot of people. That's how you find out who likes what & what they're willing to do or would like to do. You don't have to be 'nasty' with your sexual conversation, just interesting enough to really make someone listen and pay attention to what you're saying. Everybody isn't into politics or sports or current events, but damn near every adult is having sex, lol. It's a commonality that we all share.

    This is great advice here.

    And something else that I've noticed, conversation is KEY and so many people just can't have a random conversation. If you cannot open your mouth and say something, then you're not going to get what you're looking for. Good conversation leads to good things, great relationships. Ya know, give somebody something to feed off of more than a weird look or a shrug of the shoulders and you'll eventually get your little heart's nasty desires:biggrin1:
     
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    f im at the sauna or steam room at the gym how should i hint that i want to jack off?? n when i when i jack off with a friend should ask if he wants oral??
     
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    Talk to them first. GOSH. If you're not even gonna introduce yourself for one, then you might as well just strip out of your clothes and start stroking it right in front of them. Just whip it out. Try talking somebody up out of their clothes. That's how I do it. I use words to ignite people's brains, their sexual being. That's how I get what I like. I wouldn't know what to tell you about being the in gym wanting to jerk off with a stranger.

    I've give them a compliment first for sure...then I'd pry away at what I would hope would be their sexual interests.

    I don't know how to 'teach' GAME. It's a very spontaneous thing. If you're not going to use words (and have patience), then you have nothing left but your body. Hence, whip it out...stroke, stroke, stroke:biggrin1:
     
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    hey thanks man! sooo when i jack off and i cum i am temtped to eat my cum? any thoughts??? can u get sick?
     
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    I have never gotten sick from enjoying my own juices. So, lick away, my friend. You'll love it.
     
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    haha...i did try it and its not bad...felt a little weird doing eating my cum. lol when you jack off, how long do you last? i think i last a little less than the average..
     
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    LOL...I assume you're asking me, so, um hahaha

    It varies. If I need to shoot a load and I'm pressed for time, then I'll probably just stuff my brain with every erotic vision that I could muster.

    If I have some time, then it could be more than hour. Like I said, it varies on my mood. It's never a definite time...always shifts.
     
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    haha! yeah i was talking to you!!! woah...a hour? really...how can u keep from cumming, do you take pauses.? does lube help last longer?
     
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    A pause? I don't think so. Even if I get up to answer the phone, I'm still strokin' with the other hand. So, no pauses, lol.

    It's a mental thing. My ejaculation comes from my thoughts, not just out of my dick. Lube does help. I don't know how but it does. I'll think about it tonight and let you know what I come up with tomorrow.
     
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    same here i can last hours with the stop and go or a few minutes if im hardcore goin at it
     
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    anyone,
    when you cum after jacking off can you still keep going even after it is hard to?? because you can use your own cum as lube, i tried it once and the orgasm was amazing!
    ???????
     
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    I once tried to initiate this.. it didn't go so well. We were stoned (I love doing it whilst stoned) so I just whipped it out and hoped he would follow suit.. of course, if he did my next move was to suck it... but in the end I was the only one jerking.. slightly awkward...
     
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