How to be ok and confident with a 6.5 - 7 inch penis

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Depending on how horny I am, my dick is between 6.5 and 7 inches when hard. I have always gotten rave sex reviews, even from girls who have had way bigger guys. I'm unrelenting, generous, crazy, and enduring. The problem is that I'm constantly beating myself up about wanting to be 9 inches and bottom out and stretch way more, especially if she has had that kind of thing before. I like to be the undisputed best - not for competition purposes, but to know that I am the one making her as sexually happy as she's ever been. My abilities are not really the issue, except maybe in trying to reach the anterior fornix. I would love some advice on how to best do that, given my average/bit-above-average size. By the way, the girth is pretty solid. Looks thick in relation to length (don't have a tape measure around).

So my overall question asks for advice on how to deal with having a dick that is just 7 inches, mentally and performance-wise. I feel very lucky to have what I do, but it's also not fair that I can't make someone's jaw drop and proceed to punch their cervix (I know it hurts; I'm just saying). I know knees to the chest missionary is good for deepness, as is doggy. Also, any additional info on how to use a 7 incher to hit the anterior fornix or do other stuff like that would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks! I'm glad I found a site like this.
 

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I don't know if you are from the US or UK, (or elsewhere) But this is a survey that was done in the UK. I struggle with the same issue as not being as big as the 8 or 9 inch guys, (not to say its a struggle but, you get what I mean) and it helps to remind yourself of some statistics. Actual surveys, not looking at porn or that sort.

53% of men surveyed were between 5-6. You have .5-1 inch ahead of 53% of men in England. (surveyed.) You are in the 21% who had higher then 6. 4/5 guys are smaller then you.

You are above average. Do not class yourself as average. Especially since this website, you will pretty much find the two extremes (with some in the middle) of small/large dicks. So please don't look around here, where everyone has the best camera angle for the biggest picture of themselves, and think you are small by any means. You are not.

Stay strong.

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Such a supportive guy. :wink:

I have to agree, though... a 6.5 penis is nothing to be ashamed of. The only time it looks "bad" is if you're being compared to a 9 inch dick. So don't have threesomes :)

Having said that, I like my dick. It's proportioned nicely.

Cheers to the 6.5-7inchers.
 

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How to be ok and confident with a 6.5 - 7 inch penis

Step 1 - Do not confuse your penis with yourself. They are not one and the same. Your penis is not you and you are not your penis. I have known extremely well hung men that defined themselves by the huge dick, which resulted in severe depression when others stopped paying attention to the dick. They had lost sight of the infinite other things about them that made them interesting and valuable, both in and out of bed. No matter what size dick a man has, he can suffer from the same narrow-sightedness. Your dick size is just one aspect of you as a being and as a sexual being,
 
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You are already above average and there are plenty of women in the world being satisfied by average or even below average penises. You should not be worried at all. You need to stop worrying and go use your tool. I went through a worry spell and it can eat you up inside. Enjoy life be free and happy.
I have been in threesomes with guys that had 4-5" and they were confident and they had fun and the girls always enjoyed. Its more about you.
 

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Are those bone pressed measurements? I'm prolly a hair under 7 nbp, but a bit over 7 1/2 bp. I can get 7 1/2 into a vagina when the position allows to put pressure against the fatpad such as woman on top or anything where pubic bone has pressure on it.
 

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If you had a true 9in penis, you'd find rejection from a fair number of females.

Simulate the AF or PF? Try a finger, which can reach both.

And if they can be reached with a finger that's half as long as your penis...
 

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I knew someone who was really huge. The problem he had was that he hurt a lot of people (both genders) with it. So it got to the point where he was about to insert, he would go soft.

One of the worst sex partners I ever had thought it was all about his size. It really wasn't.

My point is that a really huge guys have problems with it. Maybe your better off larger than average and talented at what you do.
 

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With a 6.5 to 7 inch cock you are bigger than most of the ones she will have had. Be yourself and be confident. Bottoming out can be hurtful to your lady and is not always desirable. Relax and enjoy what you have.
 

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my suggestion is process this and let it go. it sounds like you are very good at lovemaking. enjoy the experience and be aware of making your partner happy with what god gave you. After all you have what you have AND YOU WILL NEVER EVER HAVE A 9" COCK. !!!!! I have never said no to a 6 or 7 in cock. I did have a lover once who I really really liked. he was attractive, but ALL he ever talked about during sex was his small dick. it got so I could not focus. and he always compared his dick to mine. but his cock was very nice. when I make love I want to focus and be in the moment, not co my lover on and on and on. it was sad, but it was his issue that affected himself and ultimately me and then out friendship. so be grateful for what you have and be the stud you are. Now go fuck yur brains out and enjoy!!!!!
 

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Completely know how you feel. Have the same experiences. Girls are very happy, say I have a perfect size and am by no means small. Then I ask if they had bigger. "yes". Fatter? "yes", couldnt even get my hand around". Even after the good review and "perfect penis" comment, I feel very disappointed and angry and everything in between.
 

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Be happy with what you have... I used to feel the same way and I'm over 8". Yes I hit those places you mention, but I think we all want more than what we have. It's part of the male species. We want to give our women something no man has ever given them. So since she's had a bigger size, try to give her the biggest orgasm she has ever had, connect with her, work it, feel her body, her contractions, her motions and get inside her mind and just make her go wild. For women it's more than just the size, you have to work it in so many other ways to truly make her feel amazing. I try to make my wife scratch my back and just convulse and get weak and tired. I give it to her like women want it, not how I want it.
 

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"...So my overall question asks for advice on how to deal with having a dick that is just 7 inches..."

Dude, seriously?! I barely top out at 5". You got nothing to be ashamed about...and there are plenty of people (myself included) wish they were as "small" as you are.
 

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I'm about your size and my current girlfriend says I'm her best ever. I don't know if I am her biggest ever, and I never cared to ask. She said I was the best, and that was MORE than good enough for me. A big dick doesn't mean you know how to fuck! So the advice here is to have some perspective: don't worry about others (except your gal), and understand that you are doing incredible stuff in general. Relativity doesn't apply in these situations. Much like achieving happiness, you don't do it by comparing yourself to others.

Some practical advice: something similar to piledriving her will probably get you to hit her deeply. It also helps if she has a smaller vagina (shorter girls tend to be smaller in my experience...or at least girls with small hands and feet haha).