How To Casually Flirt

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I found being overly friendly without gushing onto them gives them a little clue. Thats just my natural personality but t seems to work. I've had numbers slipped to me, ended up dating a married guy for a few months and had an offer from a rich Egyptian to come be his boy.
 

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Just be helpful, kind and friendly but don't make any overtures. Those might seem creepy to customers who aren't interested in you and may jeopardize your job. Let those who are attracted to you initiate contact.

For example I've asked for and received phone numbers from a number of people in retail and restaurants over the years.:cool:
 
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Oh come on lpsg. There has to be more input than this. Don't get me wrong there have been some awesome advice so far but i..i mean a friend of mine needs more help than that. :p
 
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I could do with some advice for this too. I work in retail, most customers are assholes but every so often there’s a hot guy who I just wanna take into the back, drop their pants and blow them all shift long
 

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You could always get a business card made (not sure what kind of retail you do), give them a compliment and slide them your card and tell them to give you a call anytime if they need anything else.
It's subtle but gets the point across.
 
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It can be tricky mixing work and flirting. I hope you have a good sense that this is OK with your boss. I worked in a coffee shop and being a flirty barista seemed in-bounds and probably generated extra tips. I've had other jobs where getting flirty with clients would get me fired as soon as I was caught. Be careful!

If you're cool, then you might want to look for some YouTube videos on flirting. I listened to some on a long car drive and got some better confidence about my skills. I was interested in hetero flirting videos but I'm sure there's all kinds out there.
 
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You could always get a business card made (not sure what kind of retail you do), give them a compliment and slide them your card and tell them to give you a call anytime if they need anything else.
It's subtle but gets the point across.

I work in a supermarket, a business card would seem very odd haha but thanks. There is one hot guy I’ve talked to once or twice now, as I’ve started going to the gym and he clearly does might just try to use that route “Oh you clearly workout a lot” or something dumb among those lines haha
 
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I work in a supermarket, a business card would seem very odd haha but thanks. There is one hot guy I’ve talked to once or twice now, as I’ve started going to the gym and he clearly does might just try to use that route “Oh you clearly workout a lot” or something dumb among those lines haha
I work in a supermarket too and had an older guy hit on me by wanting "eat me with your eyes closed" written on a cake. 1. I'm flattered but don't swing that way and 2. That's a horrible pick up line.
Definitely try to make gym small talk and ask for help with a lift (bench or squat where you need a spotter) and see if you can strike something up.
 
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I work in a supermarket too and had an older guy hit on me by wanting "eat me with your eyes closed" written on a cake. 1. I'm flattered but don't swing that way and 2. That's a horrible pick up line.
Definitely try to make gym small talk and ask for help with a lift (bench or squat where you need a spotter) and see if you can strike something up.

Pretty sure we go to different gyms but I’ll find some way to keep conversation going though thanks haha
 

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I work in a supermarket, a business card would seem very odd haha but thanks. There is one hot guy I’ve talked to once or twice now, as I’ve started going to the gym and he clearly does might just try to use that route “Oh you clearly workout a lot” or something dumb among those lines haha
Maybe keep it a bit more casual than that lol... like “hey, it looks like you go to the gym.. I’ve just signed up, which gym do you go to?” Or if that last bit might be taken the wrong way you could say “I’ve just signed up to (insert gym name here) what do you think of it?” Or even more chilled “leg day is a killer”.
 
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The best (and sometimes hardest) thing is to look him in the eyes the entire time you're chatting. Most men look away or fixate on other things. But if you hold his gaze and stare....it really says a lot. And smile. Plus a nice pair of pants that show off your ass or bulge can never hurt.
 
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Maybe keep it a bit more casual than that lol... like “hey, it looks like you go to the gym.. I’ve just signed up, which gym do you go to?” Or if that last bit might be taken the wrong way you could say “I’ve just signed up to (insert gym name here) what do you think of it?” Or even more chilled “leg day is a killer”.

Is it obvious I’m oblivious when it comes to dating and flirting haha I have no clue seriously ta
 
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Maybe keep it a bit more casual than that lol... like “hey, it looks like you go to the gym.. I’ve just signed up, which gym do you go to?” Or if that last bit might be taken the wrong way you could say “I’ve just signed up to (insert gym name here) what do you think of it?” Or even more chilled “leg day is a killer”.
Yes! If this is someone you see at the supermarket on the regular, you can play the long game. Keep it lowkey and chill--you'll see each other again. You'll build up a rapport/bond pretty fast from there--you'll be golden!
 
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So mini update from my bit; dude came in tonight, we chatted a fair bit actually. He asked which gym I went to first, and just went from there kinda as I went about my job/he did his shopping. Got his name, and he gave me a few tips for workin out etc. Who knows it might lead somewhere or maybe I’m misinterpreting but we’ll found out eventually haha
 

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Flirting is easy and silent. It is smile and the look in your eyes foreshadowing them having orgasms after orgasm...
 
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I've never had much luck with flirting though honestly. I think you have to be really handsome or something for someone to notice or flirt with you. Avg looking guys never get that.